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Soooooo guys I’m falling for a 32 year old but he wants to take care of Me and my baby 😭.. I’m 19... any thoughts ?

Soooooo guys I’m falling for a 32 year old but he wants to take care of

Me and my baby 😭.. I’m 19... any thoughts ?

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milnera2014

Amanda Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I my self like older guys cause most are more mature

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kelley.blue

Kelley87Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

If you do... Be smart about it. Make sure you are going to school and educating yourself. Don't just be a "kept" woman forever.... Even if you do that's fine but having education will assure you that you will be ok with or without him.. Hell he may be in a financial bind that you can help get him out of. My cousin had her baby very young, she met an older guy while she was pregnant... Let's just say 5 kids later they're married and she's a nurse. I like older guys and my so is a very good provider but I know how some men get when you are relying on them... That's why when I'm taking a break from working I'm continuing to educate myself and growing my business (which is still generating revenue). I love a good provider honey--- nothing wrong with that! Just be on your sh!t at the end of the day!

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cmjohnson3047

Cmjohnson3047Многодетная мама (5 детей)

To be completely honest I wouldn't.... I would maybe just be friends with the guy right now and get to know him.... focus on yourself and your child thats coming. From experience i would just not be so dependant on a guy. After the baby when you're clear to work you can be the one taking care of you and baby. But that's just my opinion.. good luck with everything.

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mhbb29

Melissa Мама сына (3 года), беременна (35 нед.)

Get to know him very well. Meet his friends and family. Dont accept what he shows you as truth until you've known him long enough to see if he is who he says.

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thebthatdontcare

.Мама двоих (младенец)

Age is just a number, but I would definitely focus on your baby coming into the world, just date him take things slow no need to rush into things get to know each other and make sure there is trust between y’all and you trust him to be around your child but I definitely wouldn’t depend on him I would have my own job and my own place so if things don’t work out you and your baby aren’t screwed

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one_coolmama

Kitty MooreМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I would definitely say take your time if wants to take care of you fine but take that time to go to school or get a part time job

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ke-ke

Keeosha Fennell Мама сына-младенца

Concentrate on yourself and your baby that will be making his/her entrance in the world soon.. no need to rush into anything

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lacyhammons161718

lacy HammonsМама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего

Girl do what makes tall happy! ! (: in the end its only yourself gonna do what makes you happy.. the reason why I say this I had to learn on my own,,, I now have a great man! After 3 kids... and I'm 21 he is 30... but we love each other... and the babies love him and he loves them as if they were his!! Age is a number !! But two hearts that connect, along with the babies hearts as well means everything

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crystalhealing

LindsayМама дочки (1 год)

Take your time. Make sure his intentions are right. Don’t put yourself in a position where you and your child are completely dependent on him in case he’s not the guy you think he is. Take it SLOW.

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emmamarch16th

EmmaМама сына (2 года), беременна (36 нед.)

If you really both like each other then I don’t think there’s any problem with it. I would say though there’s no rush ! Enjoy being happy in each other’s company and take things slowly, if you’re in love etc then you will have the rest of your lives together so there’s no need to rush into anything.

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