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For those that have miscarried, but have gotten pregnant with their rainbow baby after... did you…

For those that have miscarried, but have gotten pregnant with their rainbow baby after... did you ever have thoughts about the baby you were carrying not having a heartbeat anymore in between doctors visits, or think about any little thing you did would hurt your baby or cause you to miscarry again? Is this just me? Do I need counseling? My miscarriage last year has me living in complete fear with this pregnancy, and my faith is has taken a hit and is nowhere what it used to be. 💔

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mercstoddard

Mercedes Stoddard

Every day I worried. We lost our angel last summer. I tried to be so careful and whenever I did something that I worried would have hurt her I started to panic and laid down and relaxed while drink cold water or juice until I felt her start wiggling again. My SO was extremely helpful, but he couldn't make it go away. I just wanted her to be okay. Every little milestone helped for a little while though, helped the worry go down even though never all the way. Getting out of the first trimester. The first ultrasound (I got it late). Feeling her movements. Finding out gender. Hitting viability. Going from monthly appointments to bi-weekly. Going from bi-weekly to weekly appointments. Everyday with every wiggle was helpful and comforting as the day got closer. The worry won't go away, even after baby is born. Worrying comes with being that little one's momma. I know it's hard but try not to stress, baby needs you to be as relaxed as possible.

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

Thank you so much for this! It helped more than you know!

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mercstoddard

Mercedes Stoddard

I'm so glad I could help. 💕 You've got this.

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

@bigsisfinallymommy, 💕💕💕

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a.mama22

A

Мама двоих (младенец)

So sorry for your loss. Constant fear can be very normal. I experienced that as well as I’ve had two losses. I’m sure people who haven’t experienced a loss feel a similar fear as well at times. Hang in there and take it one day at a time. Thinking of you.

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

Thank you for your sweet words. I, too am so sorry for your losses. It’s amongst the worst pain I’ve ever felt. I’m only a message away if you ever need to chat. 💕

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a.mama22

A

Мама двоих (младенец)

Thank you so very much. 💛

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waitingonbaby2

waitingonbaby2

Мама сына (4 года)

I'm 22 weeks and constantly have fear. This has not been the pregnancy happiness I had hoped for. I bought a Doppler and it helped ease some anxiety.

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

I was seriously thinking about going to get one, because my anxiety is getting to become too much. I just don’t know how early the home dopplers work. I’m not as happy as I would like to be either. My man is stressing me, work is stressing me... 🤦🏻‍♀️

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waitingonbaby2

waitingonbaby2

Мама сына (4 года)

I started to hear the heartbeat at 9 weeks :) but even now that baby is kicking some days he's not as active so I use the Doppler. I got mine off Groupon for pretty cheap. Best investment

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

perfect! Thank you so much for your help! Means a lot to me! 💕

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ababababa

A

I agree with the Doppler. It helped ease my mind especially because I couldn’t feel baby kick until after 20 weeks and my appts were so far apart.

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

How soon were you able to hear the heartbeat on the doppler? My appointments are a month apart. 😓

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ababababa

A

you should be able to hear the heartbeat now 😊 I think I heard it earlier than 13 weeks. It’s definitely reassuring and the Doppler isn’t too much either

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

@megs03, sweet! 😊 I might even throw on some clothes and go get me one now. Worth a shot!

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amandamduval

Amanda B

Yes I worry all the time. I got pregnant a month later and am 34 weeks with the baby.

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mercstoddard

Mercedes Stoddard

Every day I worried. We lost our angel last summer. I tried to be so careful and whenever I did something that I worried would have hurt her I started to panic and laid down and relaxed while drink cold water or juice until I felt her start wiggling again. My SO was extremely helpful, but he couldn't make it go away. I just wanted her to be okay. Every little milestone helped for a little while though, helped the worry go down even though never all the way. Getting out of the first trimester. The first ultrasound (I got it late). Feeling her movements. Finding out gender. Hitting viability. Going from monthly appointments to bi-weekly. Going from bi-weekly to weekly appointments. Everyday with every wiggle was helpful and comforting as the day got closer. The worry won't go away, even after baby is born. Worrying comes with being that little one's momma. I know it's hard but try not to stress, baby needs you to be as relaxed as possible.

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

Thank you so much for this! It helped more than you know!

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mercstoddard

Mercedes Stoddard

I'm so glad I could help. 💕 You've got this.

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

@bigsisfinallymommy, 💕💕💕

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a.mama22

A

Мама двоих (младенец)

So sorry for your loss. Constant fear can be very normal. I experienced that as well as I’ve had two losses. I’m sure people who haven’t experienced a loss feel a similar fear as well at times. Hang in there and take it one day at a time. Thinking of you.

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

Thank you for your sweet words. I, too am so sorry for your losses. It’s amongst the worst pain I’ve ever felt. I’m only a message away if you ever need to chat. 💕

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a.mama22

A

Мама двоих (младенец)

Thank you so very much. 💛

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del_1546536346_jacobmomma2018

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I miscarried in 2017 and got pregnant with my son and had him 9-6-18

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

Awesome! Congratulations, Momma! 💙

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del_1546536346_jacobmomma2018

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thanks

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nvon

Nikki V

Мама двоих (младенец)

Every other pregnancy ended in a miscarriage for me. I lost my baby at 11 weeks last August. I had my baby girl in the beginning of Sept. I worried about her everyday till she was born. Even though everything would come back perfect I still had a fear in the back of my mind. I heard my daughter's heartbeat for the first time on my due date of the baby that had passed away. It was a very emotional day. I'm sorry for your loss. I hope that you can find peace during your pregnancy.

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

Oh my goodness. That is so tough. 😢 I’m so sorry. Thank you so much for your support!

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mamaovboys

Desiree Gonzales

Yes , I was and am like that. I had a healthy pregnancy after my first miscarriage. I recently had a miscarriage this year In sept and

I’m scared to have another one. Be strong. Your baby will be perfectly fine 💜

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sar_ramirez

Sarah

I completely understand. It’s heart breaking. I don’t understand why this whole thing of getting pregnant and pregnancy has to be so hard. But chin up! You’ll never know if you don’t try! Thank you for your support. 💕

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thatmama

Kay

Мама троих детей

I miscarried at 5 months on July 24th 2011 then had my rainbow baby July 25th 2018. I didnt get pregnant in between that. Of I would have had my baby in 2011 I would have only been 17.

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