LO will be 11 months via csection on the 27th . SO and I was planning on having another LO. Question is when. I hear people getting pregnant 5 months pp and other people saying I have to wait 2 years.
I had an emergency c section. If you wanna try for a vbac you have to wait a year to get pregnant if you get pregnant before that year your doctor might not let you try for vbac (meaning yout child has to be 1 or older before your conceive not 1 by the time you give birth again some women don't know that) and some doctors dont do vbac's at all. But you need he completely heal which can take up to 2 years to heal since it's a major surgery and you can rupture your uterus getting pregnant before. Women do it everyday but there's always that risk
After a csection you need more time to heal. I always hear it being recommended to at least give your body a year. I started trying for Cassie when Athena was around 10 months old, didnt get pregnant until Athena was around 16 months old. They are 3 days short of 24 months apart. Second csection was a bit more painful to recover from, I'm still tender around the scar.
1 year-2 years it just depends. I was told to wait 2 years bc I got a t incision
@leahsmyworld I was told to wait a year after giving birth. That way your body has time to heal. But you can't ever predict it. Some woman get pregnant right after giving birth.
I also had an emergency c section too
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
OT. rant! forward facing early
ok, so in my birth month forum (October 2012) someone posted a picture of their lo riding in the car in a forward facing seat! what???? it baffles me when parents do this. I'm not trying to offend anyone.. but why do ppl do this?? the oldest baby in our birth month is 9 months, she was 3 months premature. but even at 9 months I wouldn't have my child forward facing.
I need people to remember i will not be pregnant for every so keep that sane energy ur givin me 2 months n 27 days
some girls should shut the hell up .. they always say if you don't have something nice to say then don't say it ! I hate judgmental people with closed minded views .
I was told by my ob that if I want attempt a vbac then the due date and my last born have to be 18 months apart (they're 3 years). Now my midwife has told me the same thing. That my csection and my v bac have to be 18 months apart but my last c section was 4 years ago and my last v bac will be 19 months apart so I'm goos either way