I just FaceTimed with my son a little while ago :( for one he was still in the pjs I sent him there…
I just FaceTimed with my son a little while ago :( for one he was still in the pjs I sent him there in last night at like after 4pm. 😠 so that just proves me right that he keeps him in the clothes I send him in all weekend...smh. My poor baby deserves so much better than that! And then when I was saying goodbye he got sad and was about to cry and it broke my heart and then I cried after I got off the phone cause that heartbreaking face just broke my heart. I feel so bad for him when he’s there. Like wtf. Take care of your child! I send enough clothes for him to dress him in including pjs for every night. It’s ridiculous. Not to mention he was feeding him Cheerios when he’s not suppose to be eating Cheerios do to his wheat allergy 😡 I could seriously punch this guy.
Ss3mom·
I don’t know your backstory with your ex so I can only go by what I’m reading here. I assume u two aren’t on very good terms. For sure I’d be upset about the wheat allergy and he needs to be seriously talked to about that. Maybe even have him come to a drs appt to hear it from a doc how the wheat affect him. As far as the pj’s still being on where they just lounging at home? Or were they going somewhere that he could have been dressed up for? Maybe it’s just me but I wouldn’t be that upset about him still wearing his pjs. He’s still so little he can get away with that lol. Do u feel that he’s incompetent when it comes to having your son on his own? Do u believe your son isn’t being taken care of properly? Does he live alone or have help from family or friends when he’s with his dad? I’d say really learn how to pick your battles. Wearing pjs for a little more the 24 hours isn’t a battle I’d really care fight. But again that’s just me. If your son is properly cared for then I’d let that slide. It’s not worth getting so upset over something so silly as wearing the same pjs for a day!! I just hate to see u this upset over a pair of pjs ya know? I mean there’s days if we don’t leave the house my kids will stay in their pjs all day from the night before. If u really do pick your battles and let those little things go I think u will be much happier. I’m sure it breaks your heart seeing him upset when getting off the phone but it’s good that his dad is involved in his left. So take the good with the bad ya know!!
Jess··
it’s the fact that every time I send my child there in regular clothes cause usually he comes for him at 6:30pm but he came for him later so I had him in his pjs. You can tell by how disgusting they are that he has him in the clothes all weekend when he’s been wearing them all day Friday... then all day Saturday. They have nasty food all over them and god only knows what else every time! It’s nasty and I’ve flipped out on him before now I don’t say shit cause it gets me no where. You can tell my child isn’t bathed or anything. He is very neglectful and It’s just him at his house. And I have no idea how else he is to him. From what I see with them there is no bond, no love nothing and my parents can vouche for that as well as they see it even more than I do as I work Friday nights when he comes to get him. :/ I feel bad for my son, he deserves better than that! He doesn’t deserve to be treated like a scumbag. And I’ve told him and given him everything from the doctors about his wheat allergy. He never wants to go to appts so idk what else I’m suppose to do but my child is not suppose to eat cheerios and he had him eating them today 😒 and it breaks my heart that my son was upset when I said goodbye. He had often cried and refused to go with his father when he comes and my mom just has to basically give him to his dad crying and he does nothing to comfort him :/ idk it’s weird.
Melissa ·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)
Is he a good dad to him otherwise?
Jess··
@mhbb3, I have no idea. I see a lack of love and bond. He’s neglectful and idk how he is to him otherwise.