What would you ladies do if you found out your boyfriend’s family didn’t like you because of your race? Would you stay in the relationship?
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That’s craziness!! My boyfriends mom is a “Christian woman” as well. I told her “F YOU” I am done with his family. I was raised to be respectful to my elders. I’ve never in my life had to literally cuss someone’s mother out. That’s not my character. I’m mad at myself for stepping out of character but I couldn’t take it anymore. I’ve been disrespected for months. Sometimes enough is enough!
@keshajay88 I totally get it. I'm very quiet and laid back so standing up for myself doesn't usually happen. We as the mama's have to stand up and do what's best for our kids no matter how hard it is and how it might effect families. Good luck and I hope you find peace over time.
yes i would stay but your man needs to tell them to Shut The 🙎 Up... and if they cant get over themselves then that right there is your guys sign to ✂ them out of your lives😊 they can say 👋 😁
I told them if they are disrespectful to me than how am I supposed to trust how they will treat our child. He agreed with that and we both decided they aren’t allowed around our child. His sister threatened me saying they were going to start a war with me. All this because I asked to sit down and talk about whatever issues they may have with me.
As long as the one your with dosnt feel that way then your good family can be cut off it even states in the bible if anyone wants to bring religion
@mrs.letty.luna im 7 years younger and they cant compete with what i can do im a better mom to the kids they didnt have an excuse to fight with me so they said im ruining my older kids by forcing them to graduate and goto college instead of have sex and party haha they sounded so stupid like they trying to be a hoe house or something
@mrs.letty.luna, like what is wrong with these people, who raised them? Smh His family is so simple minded like that as well.
@keshajay88 yet the main one who came to get physical with me while i was pregnant is in college
If he’s going to defend you and stick on your side I’d try to make it work if he was truly someone I loved.
I did yesterday and my boyfriend and I both agreed to not have them around our child. I tried to be sensible at first and sit down and talk, they refused. Instead referring to me as an “evil fucking bitch” mind you I didn’t say anything to get that kind of response. I simply requested we have a conversation to clear the tension.
@keshajay88, you’re better than I am. I would of went the F off and gave them a reason to hate me. My husband has racist family members. He told me and I made it very clear that I didn’t want to meet them and our children will not as well. He goes to family events they are at and we don’t attend. He hasn’t gone often but I’m not going to surround myself or my children with stupid people like that.
@bigmama18, no girl I went off after she called me an evil fucking bitch for no reason. Now they have a reason. Told his mother F YOU and his sister. Told him I will not be around them and my kids won’t either. I don’t care if he goes we just aren’t! He says he’s done with all of them if they are going to act like this. His mother even tired to lie on me and say shit I didn’t say but I had text to prove it and she didn’t know he was in the room while we were talking.
My in-laws cut me out because I asked if they had their TDAP. There were already two confirmed cases of whopping cough where I live and just asked if they were still up to date on it. Well come to find out they didn't get it with my 1st like they led me to believe. So you get to be pissed and cut me out of your life...bye bitch. I still let my husband and oldest go over. My 2 month old and I gladly stay home. I had also asked for a sit down so we could talk about our differences with the flu shot and she refused and didn't talk to me for a few weeks. Then we were ok for a few months then I asked about the TDAP. She's supposed to be such a great Christian woman as well.