Ladies, I feel weird. Almost guilty, but Im told that I should be happy that my son will finally be…
Ladies, I feel weird. Almost guilty, but Im told that I should be happy that my son will finally be financially supported my his bio dad.
I filed in May, and it's taken the courts this long to enact chip support. In that time since my exs second child was born it's been a pain to get him to watch ds. He goes a month or two without seeing his son and suddenly wants him, I was curious about it and figured out all he wanted ds for was because he was taking him to photographed events to showcase his amazing dad skills. 🤦♀️
Maybe it's because courts are finally taking it it out right at the beginning of the holidays. Maybe it's because I didn't factor in the 3 years of backpay he now has to pay. I feel most guilty for his new kid. I'm pretty sure the ex is going to have to start working, so now it's like I'm forcing the kid to be raised by daycare.
What's wrong with me?
Yo mama·
No. Don’t feel guilty. 1 if he’s not even consistently getting his child that shows you he doesn’t actually care. 2 it’s not your fault and/or problem he hasn’t paid support in 3 years then decided to have another baby. I know your heart is in the right place but your child is entitled to that support money.
👻·
You’re a good person and that’s why you feel bad but like @bigmama18, said your child is more than deserving to be supported by both parents.
QueenB·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (27 нед.)
Thank you guys. I just wasn't expecting that feeling. Maybe my prego hormones having sympathy for the other baby near the holidays 🤦♀️