So me & my baby father haven’t had a normal conversation since the day I asked him if he was gonna be in her life. But every time I see him he stares at me like he always would but he NEVER says anything. So basically long story short, I’m like 90% sure I just saw him on the train. & I only say that bc as usual he was staring at me & didn’t stop until I got off the train & the train pulled off & I was outta his sight 😩 yet again he didn’t say a word. I feel like he’s waiting for me to say something but he should know better than that bc I’ve never spoken to him first when we were arguing & not speaking. Idk it’s just frustrating to have to deal with this.
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@sashalicious, thank god someone understands where I’m coming from. I want nothing but the best for her. Which includes having both of her parents in her life. But I’m not gonna twist his arm about it. I’m just gonna be the best mother I can be !
Exactly!! No one parent should have to chase the other parent to play his or her role as a good parent!! You go mama! Your doing great!! ❤️👌🏽
Its not about pride in this situation. You have his baby. That in itself should make him want to try his best to speak to you so that he can be in his daughters life. If he chooses to not speak to you, the he truly doesn't want to be a part of her life and that's sad. Long story short...it's not about your romantic relationship with him, it's more about You shouldn't have to chase him to be a good father!! I don't blame you for not talking to him. I wouldn't either.
Well one of you better open your mouth soon.
@simply_mee, @littleonemorning, I want to believe me I do. But in this situation I feel like I shouldn’t have to be the one to initiate the conversation
But you might have to. Even if you feel otherwise. Just extend the olive branch and call it a day.
I’m with @simply_mee, here. Sometimes you need to put pride aside to get answers.
How about you start the conversation first. Maybe you can get out the answers you've been waiting for.🤷
@sashalicious, thank you ! I really appreciate it 😊