So question to yalls moms our there. If you had siblings and divorced parents and short story your dad and stepmom plan a family get together vacation to go to together and all of a sudden your sisters boyfriend does or says something that you and your dad and your step mom dont like and upsets your stepmom and then dad trys to fix it the next day and all of a sudden in the morning your siblings gets upset and technically destroys the family where they never talk to there dad anymore and along all that also talks crap about your husband towards you that they dont like and when you tell them to talk to him about it or apologize or whatever but yet they wont this coming Christmas holiday what do you do hang out with someone that dont disrespect you will be blunt and talk to you about something that dont like or have Christmas with your mom/sisters that disrespect you where if something is bothering them that they dont like from your SO they complain to you instead of him nor do they apologize to him face to face or over the phone. Soooooo my question is who do you spend Christmas with. Hubby says with my dad stepmom and brother who dont complain to me about him if he does something that they dont like where they will go up to him and talk to him about it.