Literally just lost everything, because someone couldn't pee for the drug test. I can't breathe right now.

You'll have to forgive me, it's just been a shitty day and if finally starting to get better.

Not saying your SO is on drugs. I was literally asking, had you considered that he could be. He could have like never even gone, made up a story for you. I was asking had you considered. That's all. Shit

I am not trying to make assumptions but like I had said, I was looking outside the box. Don't get your panties in a wad. I literally said I wasn't trying to offend you.

I'm sorry for what your goin through mama. Honestly though, when you're ordered to do supervised drug tests, that's just what it is...a supervised drug test. They aren't going to change around the rules and do it any differently for any one person. Before you know it, every Tom, Dick and Harry has "special circumstances" as to why they need to be provided the opportunity to take their test an alternate way. Do you know how many people are in and out of those drug testing facilities on the daily? A WHOLE bunch and EVERYONE gets the same treatment, no matter who you are, where you come from or your history. That is.... stand behind this curtain, fill the cup to this line, put the lid on... thank you, NEXT! It kinda sucks but it is what it is, and what it's always been, unfortunately.

Actually I do. Thanks though. I was being realistic 😀 when you're grown and got kids to take care of..... You do what you have to. You must understand this.

That’s horrible! I’m so sorry! I can’t believe that they can’t be more understanding and able to change things around.

Now that nest back I got more of the story, he tried for 45 minutes with a full bladder but couldn't do it with someone standing there. He was molested several times as a child so having someone there triggered his ptsd. Which I can definitely believe because if I'm in the bathroom getting ready he has me step out to use the bathroom. He sent an email to the lady he interviewed with and explained that situation and asked if there was any other way he could have taken the drug test. But unfortunately it's a supervised pee test only.

Usually they will allow you all the time you need. Surely he could drink enough fluids to go eventually. ??

Sorry. Don't know the situation bit I've done my share of drug testing to keep my family. feel free to pm me

Our house that we were behind on, any money for groceries this weeks.

What happened? Lost what? I’m sorry☹️☹️