Ok so this might be a little personal but my husband told me yesterday that it’s starting to get weird to have sex with me and “it doesn’t feel the same” and I took offense to it like something is wrong with my goodies, should I be upset that he’s being like that cuz im creating our child and I still need lovings as well :(
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@alecksynaskayla, yes it is. I want to enjoy our bonding time together not feel discomfort. It doesn’t feel good for pregnancy to pop his hernia out as it is then to have it protrude more after sex and it’s swollen, no I can’t handle it
My husband is scared to have sex with me bc in the beginning after having sex there was a lot of blood and for a little while we thought it was coming from me but soon realize it was coming from him. I just have cut him with my nail. Anyways he still is scared to have sex so I haven’t had any in over two months or more. Won’t get any probably till after it’s safe after the baby is here.
He just said he can’t tell things are changing to get ready for her to come but I still have 15 weeks
He’s full of it. Your vagina is exactly the same. I bet it’s the belly freaking him out. Or because men think they have huge penises and they are going to touch the baby. Which will never happen. Explain to him your feelings are hurt. But don’t worry about your vagina. It’s just as good as before.
Maybe because he feels like he’s hurting the baby or y’all baby can feel what’s going on !! A lot of guys go through that believe it or not as we get bigger . Just talk to him and ask him what exactly does he mean and try to work around it maybe try different positions if he’s worrying about baby !! But I’m sure it has nothing to do with how attracted he is to you !!
Have you tried talking to him about exactly what he means by feels weird? My husband went through a short phase of that and when I finally talked to him he said it wasn’t me he was afraid he would cause complications with the pregnancy and hurt the baby.
That's different because when I was prego my hubby was attracted to me more
At first he couldn’t keep his hands off me now it’s like a switch
@alecksynaskayla I would ask him why he feels like that
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Overall whats everyones thoughts on this. Me personally I dont mind lgbt .but to teach it I feel like is a waste . I can teach my own children that if they ask or even wanna know
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
It’s opposite for me 🤷🏻♀️ my sex drive is almost gone. I wish it wasn’t so low but I don’t crave it at all. It frustrates me but especially my husband, it’s not in my control though 😩 to me it’s not the same my belly is in the way and I have a hernia that makes almost all positions uncomfortable