I’m still so tore about who I want in the delivery room. I know I want my husband. But I’m not sure…

Well, firstly, don't have his mom there if you don't want get there. You are the one delivering your baby. You get to pick. Mine was supposed to just be me and hubby but like last minute I called for two of my aunts and an uncle to be there. That decision is fully yours. Whatever you are comfortable with, is what you need to go with, momma. You need to be comfortable.

I just had my husband in the room and I’m glad it was just him. I feel like it’s such an intimate thing and it made it special.

I would totally have my mom and husband there. If your mom is so important to you and is gonna make you feel more comfortable then go for it. Their is nothing better then having your mom there.

What about have husband in room as main plan then say to your mum can she be on standby so if you panic you can invite her in. Then she knows she is important and wanted but you may then get through just the two of you. If it gets to the strange where you panic and want your mum there then I doubt at that time your other half will start talking about equal rights of having his mum too

With our first we told everyone no one in the room just me and hubby. Well my mom got to the hospital before we did 🤣 and she said she would wait in the waiting room. We decided to have her come back to our room because we didn't know how Iong it would be before baby made his entrance and we could all hang out. I'm really glad she was there and when it came time to push I didn't want her to go. She held my left leg and Danny held my right. She's been there for all 3 boys and I wouldn't want it any other way now. But I was not comfortable having Danny's mom in there. She didn't even ask either. She's got 4 kids of her own and two daughters who have each had 3 children. I don't think she is so interested in being in the room as she wasn't for any of her 11 grandchildren lol but you definitely have to do what feels right for you.

Don't have anyone your not comfortable with. I had my SO, my mom, sister and best friend in the room with me, at the time I wasn't comfortable with his mom being there but we let her come as soon as baby and I were cleaned up. This time around we have asked his mom to be there. But if you're not comfortable with her being there and you want your mom there talk to your husband about it, you need to have who you want there to make you comfortable.

I had my husband and my only sister in the delivery room