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Amanda Bartlett
Amanda Bartlett
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Sorry this is long... I have decided to call my dr on Monday. I have been hoping time would help and getting back to…

Sorry this is long...


I have decided to call my dr on Monday. I have been hoping time would help and getting back to work or my hormones calming down. Nothing has changed. I have no desire to do anything. If I could lay in bed or on the couch all day I would. I have zero patience and everything annoys the hell out of me. I can’t be like this with a 3 yr old and 3 month old. My house is a disaster, I have been so absent with my 3 yr old that today he said he didn’t want to stay home with me 😭That was my eye opener! I have to get better and be me again for the little people that depend on me. My husband and I are more like roommates. We haven’t had sex since I was like 4 mos pregnant. There is zero intimacy or barely even conversations. My family needs me back and I need myself back.

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ladyfreyja

Andy

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This totally sounds like me. At least since having the twins. I swear I could have wrote this. So are you going to doctors to get on medication?

bartlett425

Amanda Bartlett

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I’m going to see what they say.. if that’s what they recommend then I will at least try it. I just want to be me again. I just want to make sure I can still breastfeed with whatever they decide.

3RD UPDATE: What would you do?

3RD UPDATE: What would you do? Ok, so we have these new neighbors they have been there renting the house 2 doors down for about 3 months or so. They have a 2 year old boy, he just turned two. They have asked me to babysit him on multiple occasions, just so happens I've been busy each time. In my mind, they don't know me or anything about me. Barely know my name and they want me to watch their kid because they see I have kids and stay home. Apparently they haven't had any luck with the babysitters they have had. Well his sister just moved in and she had the little boy all morning. I get a text at 11 from the mom asking if I can come get the boy because the sister needs to leave to work on her car?.... I told her I would but was on my way to the store and would be back at 12 and would get him then. So I get back and the sister brings him over. He doesn't know me at all, but he is a very good little boy. I had no problems with him the whole time. So here is my question, I watched him from 12 to 530, the mom texted at 2 and asked how much I told her 10-15 just because I'm nice. If it was me in that situation on such short notice and someone saving my ass to watch my kid I would give them 15-20 if they said 10-15. So the dad picked him up and said the mom would pay when she got home. I just texted and asked her because she's been home since 6 (now it's 930) if she was bring over the money, I was super nice about it. She said her husband had to go to the bank, so he went and came back and then she texted me that it was on the front porch. They gave me $8. Like really? I just find this super weird. Would you be kinda thrown back by this also? I definitely learned my lesson and won't be "helping out" anymore. I just thought this was nuts.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?