Moms, so my daughter is 16 months old. She seems to be regressing in every area. When she was little she slept in a…

Moms, so my daughter is 16 months old. She seems to be regressing in every area. When she was little she slept in a bassinet by my bed fine, occasionally she would sleep with me, but now she refuses to sleep without touching me. She literally wants to cuddle all night. Not only that she refuses to let the bottle go. She drinks water from a sippy cup, but will throw a tantrum if I give her milk in a sippy. She cries and screams “ba” (for bottle) until I give her one. She also still needs her wubanub, not just one but she wants two at a time. One in her mouth and one in her hand 😫 am I an enabler or is this normal for a 16 month old. My family says she’s too old for that stuff but she won’t let it go and I don’t like her crying to even attempt taking them. Advice please