I’ve posted about my defiant toddler many times before but I’m really at a loss now. She deliberately disobeys. Like, she knows what “no” means and if she’s doing something she knows she’s not supposed to I can ask “do you want to go in timeout?” And she’ll answer “no” and SOMETIMES stop.. I can’t take her anywhere cause she refuses to listen. She runs wild, screams, throws tantrums etc. At home she’s just as bad and absolutely nothing I do or say helps. Timeout doesn’t work, hand poppings don’t work, a pop on the butt doesn’t work, I’ve tried getting down to her level and calmly explaining things or trying to make sure she knows that I understand her emotions and things like that but I’m not even kidding when I say nothing works with her. I’m constantly telling her no and even though she knows she’s going to get into trouble she will do it anyways and then cream this blood curdling scream when she does get in trouble. I’ve raided Pinterest for days, write everything down, tried everything I found... idk what else to do. Everyone keeps telling me it’s “terrible twos” or “she’s just strong willed” or that it’s normal for her age and all of that might be true but there’s gotta be some kind of something that will help me teach her to listen to me and such.
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What can I do to get baby moving swear she’s got lazy! I felt her this morning but nothing since... I’ve been doing the house and sat down for a while and nothing 🤨.. I’m worried she’s not moving enough! or she is and I just can’t feel her 🤷🏻 ♀ ... she’s been the same for a few days now. 😒😒
Idk what to do. My daughter is excited to go to school each day but when she’s actually in school she’s giving the teachers such a hard time. She is constantly running out of the classroom, throws tantrums, tells the teacher no & refuses to do any work. I’m really trying to hold off on pulling her back out but I have no idea what to do. I’ve talk to her several times, I’ve taken all of her toys away, took tv time away, told her she can’t play with her siblings yet she’s still doing what she wants in school.. this is day 3 and she is reckless. I know she needs to adjust but I’m afraid this will be a on going thing 😕. I’ve requested to put her in a smaller classroom setting with more teachers, she also has an IEP so I’m thinking she needs the extra support & im hoping this works.
Need some advice. My boyfriends daughter is saying her stomach is upset today and that she’s throwing up. She tends to eat really fast which leads to overeating so I’ve been working with her on that but she says it feels like she’s actually sick. Anyway I’ve had her laying down and she wants to run around and play with the others but I keep telling her to lay down if she’s sick. She went to the restroom and was throwing up and I peeked in to check on her and her hands were in her mouth like she was gagging herself to throw up. I’m not sure how to go about this. Now she’s saying she wants Mac and cheese and I said I’ll make toast because of her stomach and she now feels better. I don’t want to think she’s faking but it seems like it 😞
Jess·
Мама сына (2 года)
Talk to the manager of the nursery and if nothing changes. Put in a formal complaint.
If the manager is not in the building who is the deputy manager? Is the nursery privately owned or have a committee etc? Xx
Write down absolutely everything so you have evidence.
Zoe ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I’ve tried to talk to the manager but she’s never there when I go to collect Ruby or when I call, she never calls me back either, there is no deputy at the minute there recruiting one. It’s privately owned.
Jess··
Мама сына (2 года)
that's not right. There should always be a member of the management team in the building and then senior staff in the rooms. Get hold of their complaints procedure ( should be available on their website) and follow that. If nothing happens take it higher and to be honest I would remove her from there asap. I work in early years and they aren't meeting their standards let alone yours. Xx
Sara-Louise·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
Send an email with your complaint and say if you don't get a response in 24hrs you will be taking your daughter out and contacting Ofsted. That will get the managers attention. If THAT doesn't then I can only imagine they really don't care about your child's welfare or the outcome of an Ofsted visit (Ofsted have to visit if sent a complaint). In which case it's not a nursery you want to keep your daughter in.
Zoe ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I’m in Scotland so we don’t have ofsted but have similar I’ve already got an email ready and waiting to go to them, funny what you can think of to say at 2am. I’ve decided just to keep Ruby off today she’s not herself and I don’t want to send her in I don’t trust them to call me if she gets worse. Calling other nurseries today I think I will be pulling her out
kat·
Ask for meeting with the manager and your daughters key worker put it in writing and if the manager doesn't respond then take it higher to ofstead and keep records of how your daughter is collected wet clothes sore bum etc and that her record book isn't being completed. If your not happy trust your mummys instinct and move her x
Zoe ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I’ve tried to get a meeting with the manager but she doesn’t return my calls and is never there when I go to collect Indie, it’s so frustrating x
kat··
that's so annoying and unprofessional you might have to go to ofstead or look at moving her
Zoe ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I’m going to phone a few nurseries tomorrow get a visit set up to look around for next week on my days off. She’s in nursery tomorrow so going to give the manager one last chance