Feeling down! I kind of just want to count myself out this month. Cycle day 13 no positive ovulation…
Feeling down! I kind of just want to count myself out this month. Cycle day 13 no positive ovulation test yet, not too worried though I have longer cycles. That’s not why I’m upset though. My husband has a “man cold” he’s been sick since last Thursday and tomorrow is Wednesday so almost a week and he’s still milking it. You would think he’s dying 😒. So of course he’s been “too sick” to baby dance. This is the week we should be doing it at least every other day. I’ll probably ovulate the up coming weekend so it’s not to late for us to try but I’m afraid I’m already out because they say the days leading up to ovulation are the most important. Feeling like this is never going to happen for me 😞

MassMomma16·
What?! You’re only CD13! And sometimes it’s best for SO to not know about timing. They are known to get “performance anxiety”.
Lexi··
Мама сына (2 года)
Yes I made the mistake of writing my fertile window in my calendar last month and my husband felt so pressured and I think it freaked him out a tad bit. so this month I’ve been very tight lip about it! I have even been hiding my ovulation test so he doesn’t know lol. I’m just worried because today I tried to get in bed with him and still “ too sick” I’m just afraid if we don’t get to it soon we will lower our chances. I hate having long cycles
Courtney Z·
I second massmomma there! I didn't tell my hubs at all when I was ovulating haha.
Courtney Z·
Also, I'm not going to lie, none of my kids were conceived bc we BD the week before ovulation. We were always the day before and or the day after my + OPK. So don't fret! If it doesn't happen this month, Christmas is an excellent surprise!