Im sorry for your loss. I think you should be able to do whatever you want. I had my stillborn i did her funeral the way i wanted too. My kids were included in everything. You do what you want mama. Don't listen to that.

I’m so sorry for your loss. I think you should be able to do what you want at her service. I’m sure she is just trying to protect you, but it’s coming off like she isn’t valuing your way of grieving.

And Lovie is hard of hearing ughhhhhhh....I'm about to go to jail for snapping on her