And the bs begins, my SO mom & grandma both saying the baby dont look like him 😒, I don’t even have…
And the bs begins, my SO mom & grandma both saying the baby dont look like him 😒, I don’t even have the time to argue with them but I know they’re in his head about it & it really bothers me that he’s questioning it. I never had a relationship with them and now I don’t honestly care too. I’m at such a breaking point with all of him and his family. Just ranting my baby looks like a potato I don’t see myself in him other then my lips & complexion, but he clearly has his dads nose 😡
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Мама троих детей
Tell your SO
“If you ask for a paternity test, I’m leaving you”
Alyboo102293··
Мама четверых детей
He knows where I stand on that , Id more the oblige and give him one but yes we will no longer be together because obviously he doesn’t trust me at all when I’ve done nothing but hold him down through everything including this deployment 🙄 he keeps saying he don’t care what they say but obviously you do or you would have vouched for your son regardless of how he looks right now. But instead he said he just laughed about it. & I know they’re on the phone screaming he get a dna test 😒 I’m over it.
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Мама троих детей
that’s okay. And they never have to be apart of that baby’s life then
Leah·
At a week old newborns typically don't look like either parent because they just spent 9 month in fluid and all squished up. Are you guys married?
Alyboo102293··
Мама четверых детей
Exactly they get on my nerves, I never would have sent them pictures had I known they only wanted them to compare 😑.
Alyboo102293··
Мама четверых детей
No we aren’t we’re engaged but whew I don’t know if I can even follow through at this point in time
Maya 🐝·
Why are they being so stupid? Can your son get a month in this world yet?
Maya 🐝··
@alyboo102293, seriously? You need a reason to take pictures of your newborn?! He needs to stop that shit. You’ve been by yourself the entire pregnancy and gave birth by yourself like a champ! The least he can do is not be disrespectful to you and say some shit like that.
Alyboo102293··
Мама четверых детей
@amouryaya09, yeah I know & what makes me sick is like his family won’t stop but I’m fine with it if he wants to file for paternity & set up child support we can go there because it’s automatic around here 🤷🏼♀️.
Maya 🐝··
I totally feel you! He blame his family for that. He needs to use his own brain. Your child does not have to look like you to be yours.
angelfoodcake·
Wow
angelfoodcake·
I'd give him one though
Alyboo102293··
Мама четверых детей
Girl I’m really tempted to just do it and end it all cause I already feel disrespected by the fact that its even being thought about
angelfoodcake··
I think it's none of his families business to press the issue, he's a grown man and y'all are in a committed relationship. Now if he wants one then I think it's reasonable, but of course because y'all are engaged I know it's a level of mistrust you are feeling. Talk to him and see where he's at with it. Me I would insist on it now from the family comments, and they need to pay lol
Emily·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
@ooshefit2 Why ? I wouldnt jump to leaving just because he asked for one.
But @alyboo102293 my bd mom did this to me for months. it was hell. my bd asked me to get one and it bothered me too so i feel u. but once we got one it shut all of his family the hell up which was good but its always that tension when we see each other. its always awkward idk. but itll be ok girl ❗
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Мама троих детей
Maybe not you🤷🏻♀️
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Мама троих детей
@ooshefit2, and yeah right , at this rate...she gets a paternity and then they won’t leave her alone about wanting a baby they didn’t want in the first place because “DNA test”
Fuck that 😂
Emily·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
@ooshefit2 LOL yeah thats what i said.
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Мама троих детей
I don’t do that logic 😂😂
“Like how dare you trap my poor innocent baby boy with a baby, ITS NOT HIS”...says the incest mother who can’t bare the thought of her son making babies with another woman