Soo My daughter is 2 years old, before i had my daughter me and my husband were wild, did what…
Soo My daughter is 2 years old, before i had my daughter me and my husband were wild, did what wanted complete party animals, living a fast pace city life. since having her we moved to the country with no neighbors, he works 12 hours a day 5 days a week, I have no friends here my life is 100% 24 hours a day 7 days a week consumed by my daughter. also m6 license is suspended from back in my party days so i cant leave the house without my husband. i feel so lonely sometimes but never feel like i have a moment alone. im going throught a stay at home mom burn out, i feel like ive completely lost my identity. any time i try to talk to my husband about it, he thinks im trying to say that i just want to up and leave and go partying... has anyone else been through a similar situation?
Heather ·
The isolation gets to ya. Im going though a very similar situation
L·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I definitely know what you're feeling. We have one vehicle and my hubby goes to school full time while I'm home, day in day out, with two littles. I burnt myself out on the partying during college lol but I do miss having a great job and being around other adults. The isolation certainly does get you. We moved away from my family to be closer to my hubby's family, and they moved recently so we don't have anyone here related. I have made friends with one person, but we see each other maybe twice a month because she works a lot and I'm always at home with the kids. It's just a strange season of life, I guess, and it won't always be this way. We're done having kids so now we just get to watch them grow and raise them. It's a good life. Hectic. But I do like having the opportunity to spend so much time with my kids even if I have very little for myself. But it definitely is a shock to go from a fast paced life to slowing everything down to care for a child 100% of the time.
Heather·
I’m sorry it’s rough