I'm super conflicted. 😞 I want another baby so bad. Our little one was so hard to get here. It took nearly 4 years to conceive him and it was a battle to stay pregnant. He was born early and in the hospital for a long time. Hes been a very tough baby (and still is.) He has some problems and even has some surgeries coming up. We originally wanted to wait until he was 2 but I'm finding myself wanting another more and more. 😟
Meanwhile I have all these things I want to do. Like volunteer work, save to buy a house, ect.
I also want to eventually foster but I want to get our family situated first. Ugh.
Rant over.
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@mccartymchs, PPROM is a reason for a preemie. We saw 3 top MFMs and 2 high risk OBs for opinions. Our kiddo was early for unknown reasons. I completely understand your feelings. A lot of what you’re saying is what preemies and their moms go through. Are you in any support groups? They’ve been amazing
@laniejay I'm not in any support groups. 😥 I dont know how to find local ones...do you know how to go about that?
@mccartymchs, I found them on FB. I wish there were local in person ones.
Compare your goals to what you and your family wants and what you need. List them in order, and decide from there. Work on them one at a time so it would be less stressful 💗
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
So I want more mommies I can talk to, about our babies or just our lives. People I can talk to who I'm not lonely all day😊 message me or comment
I'm being induced. Baby has no heartbeat. I am numb and just want to die.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So me and my fiance we agreed to wait before trying again. Well tonight he just told me that he wants me to be pregnant again!! I understand he wants a family but I'm just not ready. I'm so scared of losing another baby!! 😩😩
I had a micropreemie and they recommended waiting two years to let my body heal and lessen the chance of another. We waited and then saw specialists to get opinions on the risks. It helped us have a game plan and my next child was born 37.6. Waiting is a good thing as hard as it is.