Mercedes Stoddard
mercstoddard
Mercedes Stoddard·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Worst cervix check! She gets all the way back there and goes, "I want to see if I can push through it. Deep breaths. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I know." And she pushed and pushed and PUSHED then she pulls out and goes, "Well I can't get my fingertip all the way in." Now instead of bleeding I am leaking like discharge but my nose is all screwed up and I can't tell if it's some of my water leaking or just discharge because I'm not spotting this time. I think today just wigged me all out.

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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей

In all seriousness- you should be angry. She shouldn’t be forcing her fingers in there. Cervical checks aren’t even necessary until active labor is suspected, let alone being forceful.

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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей

If your nose is screwed up from a cervix check, she definitely pushed her hand in way too far 😱

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melissaredfield87
Melissa Redfield ·Мама четверых детей

Awww I’m sorry momma! I refused cervical checks for this reason and when I was in labor the nurse stuck her fingers really hard in me to check my cervix and was so rough😫she hurt my urethra and clitoris and I swear cut me! I wanted to kick her a** but all I could do was cry and scream, I’m 3 weeks PP AND IT STILL HURTS.

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mercstoddard
Mercedes Stoddard·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Unless I think there's an issue I will always refuse in the future with other pregnancies etc. That sound miserable! I could not imagine that!

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haslberry
Nunya Business·Мама двоих (младенец)

Well I can't say that there wouldn't be any normal discharge with it, I'm just not sure. I strongly suggest putting a call in to Labor and Delivery or your OB on call (should be the same number as regular hours), and they will ask questions to determine whether it's concerning or not.

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mercstoddard
Mercedes Stoddard·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Okay, thank you.

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haslberry
Nunya Business·Мама двоих (младенец)

If it's your water, it will be a watery consistency. It's usually mistaken for diluted urine, not typical vaginal discharge.

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mercstoddard
Mercedes Stoddard·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

So no normal discharge along with it? And I may not notice it except in the pantyliner? Thank you so much.

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haslberry
Nunya Business·Мама двоих (младенец)

Put on a fresh pad and start keeping track of the fluid. Lay down for a bit and get back up to see if more comes out that way. Your water may be leaking, and if it is you'll need to be admitted. You should also call your OB office (the on-call) or L&D to see what they want you to do. She should not have done that.

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mercstoddard
Mercedes Stoddard·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

If my water was leaking would I still be having the acidicy discharge or just the sweet smelling fluids? Also, it is that discharge is kind of stringy/stick and fluids won't do the same stretchy thing, right?

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deleteaccount25

Oh no! she really PUSHED😧

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mercstoddard
Mercedes Stoddard·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Yes, it hurt SO BAD!

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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей

In all seriousness- you should be angry. She shouldn’t be forcing her fingers in there. Cervical checks aren’t even necessary until active labor is suspected, let alone being forceful.

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kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

I mean, she doesnt need to ne forcing her fingers in there.

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mercstoddard
Mercedes Stoddard·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

I'm hoping it isn't my waters but I don't think there has been any more. I'm going to try to clear up my nose, I put a pantyliner in and will check it after taking care of my nose.

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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей

If your nose is screwed up from a cervix check, she definitely pushed her hand in way too far 😱

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kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

Umm. That's not okay lol. Wtf??

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mercstoddard
Mercedes Stoddard·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Lol idk, I'm not in any pain

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