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Mercedes Stoddard
Mercedes Stoddard
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Worst cervix check! She gets all the way back there and goes, "I want to see if I can push through it. Deep breaths. I'm…

Worst cervix check! She gets all the way back there and goes, "I want to see if I can push through it. Deep breaths. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I know." And she pushed and pushed and PUSHED then she pulls out and goes, "Well I can't get my fingertip all the way in." Now instead of bleeding I am leaking like discharge but my nose is all screwed up and I can't tell if it's some of my water leaking or just discharge because I'm not spotting this time. I think today just wigged me all out.

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laniejay

Lanie JayМама троих детей

In all seriousness- you should be angry. She shouldn’t be forcing her fingers in there. Cervical checks aren’t even necessary until active labor is suspected, let alone being forceful.

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

@cams she was wearing gloves that were brand new so I hope that won't be a problem.

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cams

Cams Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@bigsisfinallymommy, seems like good way to introduce unnecessary bacteria to me. 🤔

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

That's what I thought, they wanted to check me because of my Umbilical Varix to see if I was getting anywhere on our own but I didn't think she needed to go that much. Should I be worried, though? I've heard cervix checks can cause labor or waterbreaking etc. I haven't had any contractions and the typical post pain is virtually gone.

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laniejay

Lanie JayМама троих детей

If your nose is screwed up from a cervix check, she definitely pushed her hand in way too far 😱

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mariapb

MariaМама сына (1 год)

😂😂😂

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Omg, no 😂😂 lol that's not what I meant. I meant my nose has been screwed up. It's stuffy and I haven't been able to smell well due to allergies.

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melissaredfield87

Melissa Redfield Мама четверых детей

Awww I’m sorry momma! I refused cervical checks for this reason and when I was in labor the nurse stuck her fingers really hard in me to check my cervix and was so rough😫she hurt my urethra and clitoris and I swear cut me! I wanted to kick her a** but all I could do was cry and scream, I’m 3 weeks PP AND IT STILL HURTS.

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Unless I think there's an issue I will always refuse in the future with other pregnancies etc. That sound miserable! I could not imagine that!

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haslberry

Nunya BusinessМама двоих (младенец)

Well I can't say that there wouldn't be any normal discharge with it, I'm just not sure. I strongly suggest putting a call in to Labor and Delivery or your OB on call (should be the same number as regular hours), and they will ask questions to determine whether it's concerning or not.

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Okay, thank you.

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haslberry

Nunya BusinessМама двоих (младенец)

If it's your water, it will be a watery consistency. It's usually mistaken for diluted urine, not typical vaginal discharge.

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

So no normal discharge along with it? And I may not notice it except in the pantyliner? Thank you so much.

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haslberry

Nunya BusinessМама двоих (младенец)

Put on a fresh pad and start keeping track of the fluid. Lay down for a bit and get back up to see if more comes out that way. Your water may be leaking, and if it is you'll need to be admitted. You should also call your OB office (the on-call) or L&D to see what they want you to do. She should not have done that.

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

If my water was leaking would I still be having the acidicy discharge or just the sweet smelling fluids? Also, it is that discharge is kind of stringy/stick and fluids won't do the same stretchy thing, right?

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deleteaccount25

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Oh no! she really PUSHED😧

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Yes, it hurt SO BAD!

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laniejay

Lanie JayМама троих детей

In all seriousness- you should be angry. She shouldn’t be forcing her fingers in there. Cervical checks aren’t even necessary until active labor is suspected, let alone being forceful.

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kambam

kammyМама сына (2 года)

I mean, she doesnt need to ne forcing her fingers in there.

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

I'm hoping it isn't my waters but I don't think there has been any more. I'm going to try to clear up my nose, I put a pantyliner in and will check it after taking care of my nose.

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laniejay

Lanie JayМама троих детей

If your nose is screwed up from a cervix check, she definitely pushed her hand in way too far 😱

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kambam

kammyМама сына (2 года)

Umm. That's not okay lol. Wtf??

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mercstoddard

Mercedes StoddardМама дочки-младенца, беременна (39 нед.)

Lol idk, I'm not in any pain

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