Am I a bad partner I feel so down and lost on what to do next basically yesterday my baby was rushed to the hospital because he wasn’t breathing properly and I was there the whole time by myself I had no support and I understand his dad had work but once he finished work he didn’t even ask if he should come to hospital he just left me there by myself and then had a go at me when on the phone when I couldn’t remember what the doctor said exactly and I told him that if he was so worried he would of found a away down to the hospital he then said I have crossed the line and how dear I and hung up on me. We live quite far away from the hospital so I couldn’t get home that night lucky my babies godparents only lived 10 minutes away so they came to get us when we got the okays from the doctors but his dad hasn’t called or texted to ask if we are okay or reached safe . Was it too far what I said I just feel like a bad partner n I don’t know what to do 😭💔
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You did the right thing here, I'd expect my hubby to just join us at the hospital if I'd taken Bethany in with breathing problems - he works closer to the hospital than where we live, so it wouldn't take him too long to get there.
Plus to be fair, if I'd been in your position I probably wouldn't have remembered everything the drs said word for word.
I’m sorry but he’s the bad one here!!! You did nothing wrong. I would expect my partner to come home from work if that happened without even a thought. Then not even coming to the hospital after work?? Surely his main priority is his child?? Honestly, you haven’t done anything wrong and men have a way of turning things around to make you look in the wrong. Stick to your guns and be strong you’re the one who is in the right here! Xxx
You are not the bad partner! He is. He should of been up that hospital supporting you and making sure your son was safe.
Don't let him make you feel shit when you have done nothing wrong. He should never of spoken to you that way and to be honest if you couldn't remember what the doctor said that's absolutely justified as you are looking after him and are worried about what could happen as well as a 100 other things like I've got washing to do or who's going to clean the toilet. It's what we do. Don't worry just concentrate on your beautiful boy you've done nothing wrong xx
I'd be absolutely fumming if my partner wasn't at the hospital aswell especially for something serious like breathing problems your totally in the right x @marissawilliams628
If anything his the bad partner, he should of been there for you and your son and not acted the way he is, you done the right thing so don't doubt yourself! Xx
I don’t think it makes you bad hunni.... you had a bad day was worried about your baby.... partner should have understood this and not thrown a strop! I would have also wanted my husband to come to the hospital as well xx
Chin up your doing a great job xxx
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I would do exactly the same thing. He's your babies father he should of come straight to the hospital after he finished work. He didn't know what was going in and still went home instead of coming to see if his baby was okay. X