Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
TMI: So me and the mr. had sex for three hours it was great i went to sleep but the weird part is i woke up to him sucking the milk out my breast lol i asked him what he was doing he said he does it every day when I'm asleep he says he loves the taste of the milk omg I'm shocked and starring at him i don't no what to say so i said everyday he said yeah he loves the sweet taste.😒
Amy Williams·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I would do exactly the same thing. He's your babies father he should of come straight to the hospital after he finished work. He didn't know what was going in and still went home instead of coming to see if his baby was okay. X
K1mT·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (9 нед.)
You did the right thing here, I'd expect my hubby to just join us at the hospital if I'd taken Bethany in with breathing problems - he works closer to the hospital than where we live, so it wouldn't take him too long to get there.
Plus to be fair, if I'd been in your position I probably wouldn't have remembered everything the drs said word for word.
Emily·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I’m sorry but he’s the bad one here!!! You did nothing wrong. I would expect my partner to come home from work if that happened without even a thought. Then not even coming to the hospital after work?? Surely his main priority is his child?? Honestly, you haven’t done anything wrong and men have a way of turning things around to make you look in the wrong. Stick to your guns and be strong you’re the one who is in the right here! Xxx
Jess·
Мама сына (2 года)
You are not the bad partner! He is. He should of been up that hospital supporting you and making sure your son was safe.
Don't let him make you feel shit when you have done nothing wrong. He should never of spoken to you that way and to be honest if you couldn't remember what the doctor said that's absolutely justified as you are looking after him and are worried about what could happen as well as a 100 other things like I've got washing to do or who's going to clean the toilet. It's what we do. Don't worry just concentrate on your beautiful boy you've done nothing wrong xx
K·
I'd be absolutely fumming if my partner wasn't at the hospital aswell especially for something serious like breathing problems your totally in the right x @marissawilliams628
Abby Rose⚘·
Мама дочки-младенца
If anything his the bad partner, he should of been there for you and your son and not acted the way he is, you done the right thing so don't doubt yourself! Xx
Charlotte·
Мама сына (2 года)
I don’t think it makes you bad hunni.... you had a bad day was worried about your baby.... partner should have understood this and not thrown a strop! I would have also wanted my husband to come to the hospital as well xx
Chin up your doing a great job xxx