I work my ass off every single day being our family's only income for the past 5 years. Now going through my 2nd…

Sorry your going through this hun. Is there a reason for him not working?

I’m sorry but that is just absolutely ridiculous. If you are working he needs to be helping if not doing most of the things you just listed. And you are a human, you have every right to feel all three of those things especially at 33 weeks pregnant!

I’m sorry you’re in that situation. But that’s absolutely ridiculous. You have every right to feel any and all emotions.. What’s your partner contributing to your relation ship besides being worse than a teenage babysitter. I really am sorry. My mom is in the same situation so it really gets to me. I’ve watched her fall apart over the last few years because she simply won’t do anything about it. And she knows. We tell her that she needs a partner and not another kid. I hope things get better for you guys.

Why doesn’t he work?

From this and your past posts it seems like he contributes nothing at all physically or emotionally. Why keep him around? If you already do everything by yourself you'd probably be better off without having to take care of him, too.

10 days off after C-section?! 😳😳😳 Honey, that’s not enough time to heal properly. I think you need to strongly consider if he is worth all this stress and heartache.

Wait what.... he made you at 33 weeks pregnant clean up vomit?! Girrrl he needs a swift kick out the damn door

I’m sorry hun that you have to go through this. I went through the same thing . I ended up leaving him and kick him out of my house. Now I’m raising my 5 year old from a different person and I’m 31 weeks pregnant doing it on my own.. rather be single then unhappy

This isn’t a healthy marriage. Somethings got to give.

What keeps him from working??? 🤔 and what is he doing while he’s not working?

This is mental/emotional/verbal abuse. He’s a moocher and treats you like shit. I was in your situation not long ago and it sucked. Also read up on Borderline personality disorder. (Narcissist) he’s gaslighting you and making you feel worthless. It won’t get better and you need to think about your daughter. Do you want her growing up thinking that’s how a man should treat her?

@mrs.jay__x he watches our daughter everyday.

@bitchcraft he does help out and do things around the house. Some days are just more than others.

@boys.everywhere @scruffy.nerf.herder being self employed I cannot afford more than 10 days off. I dont get paid leave or anything like that.

@jellybeans33 no not vomit lol she threw all her toys and pretty much everything from her room and the living room all over the house.

@davissasha1991 I wish nothing but the best for you!

@cams we are not married on paper but have been together for about 10 years now. Our relationship is complicated and has evolved with us. I do my venting on here but it's not the entire story of our relationship.

@massmomma16 I am an independent contractor working from home and he watches our daughter everyday.

@newmommabee, I’d suggest talking to him and establish who does what chores and when. My husband and I did this and it works for us! You can’t keep this up alone. Your relationship will eventually suffer.