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Melanie Ash
newmommabee
Melanie Ash
I work my ass off every single day being our family's only income for the past 5 years. Now going through my 2nd pregnancy. Currently 33 weeks with a 1 year old and I still manage to get yelled at after work for our little one doing something while you were watching her!!! All while im on the floor cleaning up because she threw everything everywhere with tummy cramps. And even on a good day something is somehow always my fault. What more do you want from me??? I cook every meal, do almost all laundry, all dishes, every single diaper, bath, work at least 6 days a week among everything else!!! And you tell me we cant afford for me to be tired or stressed or depressed. Jesus christ I even only take a max of 10 days for maternity leave after a c section!!! And i support you and love you no matter what always.
03.11.2018
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massmomma16
massmomma16
@newmommabee, I’d suggest talking to him and establish who does what chores and when. My husband and I did this and it works for us! You can’t keep this up alone. Your relationship will eventually suffer.
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newmommabee
newmommabee
@massmomma16 I am an independent contractor working from home and he watches our daughter everyday.
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newmommabee
newmommabee
@cams we are not married on paper but have been together for about 10 years now. Our relationship is complicated and has evolved with us. I do my venting on here but it's not the entire story of our relationship.
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newmommabee
newmommabee
@davissasha1991 I wish nothing but the best for you!
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newmommabee
newmommabee
@jellybeans33 no not vomit lol she threw all her toys and pretty much everything from her room and the living room all over the house.
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newmommabee
newmommabee
@boys.everywhere @scruffy.nerf.herder being self employed I cannot afford more than 10 days off. I dont get paid leave or anything like that.
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newmommabee
newmommabee
@bitchcraft he does help out and do things around the house. Some days are just more than others.
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newmommabee
newmommabee
@mrs.jay__x he watches our daughter everyday.
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feeneythepotstirrer
feeneythepotstirrer
This is mental/emotional/verbal abuse. He’s a moocher and treats you like shit. I was in your situation not long ago and it sucked. Also read up on Borderline personality disorder. (Narcissist) he’s gaslighting you and making you feel worthless. It won’t get better and you need to think about your daughter. Do you want her growing up thinking that’s how a man should treat her?
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massmomma16
massmomma16
What keeps him from working??? 🤔 and what is he doing while he’s not working?
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cams
cams
This isn’t a healthy marriage. Somethings got to give.
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davissasha1991
davissasha1991
I’m sorry hun that you have to go through this. I went through the same thing . I ended up leaving him and kick him out of my house. Now I’m raising my 5 year old from a different person and I’m 31 weeks pregnant doing it on my own.. rather be single then unhappy
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jellybeans33
jellybeans33
Wait what.... he made you at 33 weeks pregnant clean up vomit?! Girrrl he needs a swift kick out the damn door
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scruffy.nerf.herder
scruffy.nerf.herder
10 days off after C-section?! 😳😳😳 Honey, that’s not enough time to heal properly. I think you need to strongly consider if he is worth all this stress and heartache.
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boys.everywhere
boys.everywhere
From this and your past posts it seems like he contributes nothing at all physically or emotionally. Why keep him around? If you already do everything by yourself you'd probably be better off without having to take care of him, too.
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