Do you ever look at the person you fell in love with and just say to yourself like... You aren’t…

Yes and it sucks and if not evil just completely not who they once were and it’s mind bottling

People don't change, you just arent blinded by love anymore and start noticing things you never noticed before. 😢

@prestonjeanetta0120, Exaclty! Got me feeling like I’m dealing with an evil twin or a clone or something!!

@butterscotch, That sounds more like what I have going on..👏🏽‼️

@leximonae1k once that happens theres only a few choices to make. Leave and be happy, try counseling, or stay and be unhappy. Hope whatever happens you find happiness.

In my opinion.It shouldn’t be that way. If it is it usually means they didn’t have the best intentions or they were hiding who they really are. And now that they are super comfortable around you the true them has come out. Yes people change but as a couple people usually change together and it’s positive most of the time. You create your own ways of doing things together. I’m sorry you are going through this.

That person was always like that. You were just fooled by an act and blinded by lust to see the red flags.

@butterscotch, I don’t think counseling would ever fix him 🤷🏽‍♀️he can’t seem to respect the mother of his child so I won’t even bother. My best bet is for me to move on.

@tiera_shaye, You’re exactly correct.. I wish I would’ve known beforehand. The signs were there but as everybody else said I was blinded 🤦🏽‍♀️.. But thank you for the advice. ❤️

@laniejay, Sounds tooooo accurate👏🏽 I should’ve trusted my gut.