Iv been really nervous lately thinking about the c section that the doctor told me I have to have. I’m going to have it done February 14 and my due date was the 16 but it’s nice that the doctor gave my baby girl love day I’m just so nervous thinking about having to be awake for everything and can’t move I hate not being in control and this is going to be one of those times where I am not going to have control of anything. I really hope it goes well because iv been just having lots of anxiety I cannot even sleep over this it’s 3:21 am and I’m still awake it’s bad
@lii94, Iv has 12 brain surgery’s so I can not push her out it’s a safety thing she is going to be my first and last baby so I’m looking forward to it but can not help my nerves
U control mostly. A regular delivery u never know when baby coming or how long ull have to push or.. ..c section u know ull meet lil one on the 14th and hell be arriving at a certain time. No guessing on arrival. It's not as scary as ppl think. It's all controlled and calm atmosphere. It's like rollercoaster ur nervous till u get off then ull b like ok I'll ride agian.
Don't stress to much. I was told all the way up to 39w that bubs was head down. At my 39w appointment, i was was 3cm dialted 100 effaced and thinned. They were going to induce me that evening with the cervical tampon. He checked me twice because he couldn't feel the head only the sack so he did a portable ultrasound. His head was at my ribs and what they had been feeling was his bum. So they scheduled me a c section 2 days later. I was mortified. Yes, it sucked not being in control, the spinal wasn't pleasent, but i wouldn't change it for the world. Recovery was difficult but the pain wasn't as bad as i thought it would be once i got home i never took anything for it. In the hospital i did because i had hemmoraged and ended with pitocin and a hole lot of other crap. But he was breech and there's literally no controling it. All in all yes it sucked, but not as bad as i let my anxiety tell me it would.
May i ask why hes saying you need a c section at 24w? Seems a little early to vw planing that to me.
@jennamitchell23, aww thanks that’s really helpful because it’s nice to hear from someone that’s been through it thanks