RANT*** I was deep in convo yesterday giving crap to my stepsons friend because he has been living here for 3 weeks (took him in for the night no where to go) and loves here for now. Every weekend he leaves all day and comes in at 1:30 in the morning.. I warned him about his behavior and Friday he left at 7pm while I was at work and came home yesterday evening didn't ask me or text nor call me. I told him he needs to find somewhere else to live I feel like he is taking advantage of my kindness. As he had no where to live as he left his dads then got kicked out of the youth shelter for non compliance of the rules 🙄 which I can clearly see. I had enough of his crap as he's 17 going on 18 in 2-3 months. Like no.. He just started working but he has videos to watch for new job 16hrs worth instead of going to library and doing what he needs to.. He's running the streets with kids who live at home and have a secured bed. Like he is on borrowed time. I don't ask for money or to clean my house. I expect him to clean up after himself and respect my house by simply following the rules. He isn't a prisoner, he can go see friends during the day sometimes but do not enter my house after 11pm/11:30 the latest unless its work related and trying to tag along a friend. Nope sleeps out and strolls back in here 24hrs later pratically like everything is ok. Then he just woke up late asking for a ride to school. My stepson and him share a room downstairs and my stepson worked last night to 10pm and woke up on time and caught the bus.. How this boy downstairs asking me of I'm going out so I can drop him to school. I just asked him why you late.. He said laundry.. Umm so how is that my problem. Nope I'm not driving him anywhere. He needs to call the shelter and beg because I want him out. I just told this kid last night he needs to get his shit by together and he wakes up late for no reason and its like I wasted my breath 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I don't need this shyt I have enough on my own plate. Would you put him out? I'm going through domestic abuse issues the same week I took him in because it was cold and I was trying to help a kid out but clearly I cannot any longer he has no respect
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He has not respected your rules. He needs to go. It you want to still be nice give him until the end of the week. Or change your locks and put his stuff out today. Explain to your stepson that his friend is no longer allowed in the home.
You’re doing something so kind and generous. If he can’t respect your rules. Then yes, I’d kick him out too
I'd put him out. If he can't respect the house rules, he cannot stay there. It's as simple as that.
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