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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
Ladies. A little advice needed. I watch my 2 y/o nephew. Mind you I pick him up and take him home. Also provide snacks and such. i am also potty training him. Well my sister and his dad agreed on 200.00 a month. Well this is month 2 and all I've gotten was 10.00 the first week and 20.00 was thrown at me last week with a attitude from him "know it all " dad. I'm a nice person my sister works in the medical field. He is a "painter" .they make good money. I'm trying to be nice but I'm not sure what to do or even say. Any advice is welcome.
29.10.2018
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
@kennyshakur I watched him a few days after this post still no pay so I told her not to bring him back. So now I'm every name in the book.
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kennyshakur
Kenny💘·Мама четверых детей
I know this is old but where I live daycare is 200+ A WEEK! So they’re definitely taking advantage 😭I wish I could pay 200 a month
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
@expectinggreatness @expectinggreatness thanks hun 💗
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expectinggreatness
Expectinggreatness ·Мама сына (6 лет)
@monkeysmommie01, lol I don’t think it’s an issue that you wanted to give them a deal and charge them less than they would have paid elsewhere. That was very nice of you ❤️The issue is that they didn’t even pay you that little amount and didn’t even communicate with you to make arrangements. Glad you sent her s message 😅😇
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
@expectinggreatness yea I low balled them because I know what it's like to have a 2 y/o but not having bill I mean come on. But I don't think she liked my message o well lol we shall see if he comes tomorrow
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expectinggreatness
Expectinggreatness ·Мама сына (6 лет)
First of all you are already giving them an awesome deal at $200 a month. If they were at a daycare it would be ATLEAST that in one week! When I go back to work, someone I know will be watching my baby for $125 per week . Even though I’ve known her for years, I drafted an agreement that included payment amount and days, what I’m responsible for bringing , hoe we will handle holidays , sick days , etc. basically anything I could think of so expectations are set in the beginning . Then I had her come over and we reviewed them together last week . She will begin watching him in December , but I wanted to get a head start because I don’t want to ever fall out with her because of childcare miscommunication or expectations not being met. I’d say talk to them ASAP and give them a date you need the back pay money by and let them know if you won’t watch child after that date if no payment received . Then pick a day for all future payments ( like every first Friday or every Friday ) then there is no discrepancy.
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
Thank you ladies. I sent a message no reply yet.
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gris0723
Griselda Galindo ·Мама двоих (6 лет, 13 лет)
When my daughter was little I would pay $200 per week (which is cheap for the Bay Area). $200/month with snacks and pick ups is nothing. They should be paying you more.
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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей
I’d tell them you need the $ by x date or they need to find new care.
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cmjohnson3047
Cmjohnson3047·Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@monkeysmommie01 good always try to stand your ground or theyll try to take advantage of you. Its happened to me before
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
@cmjohnson3047 aww in sorry your going thru it too. Yea I just sent her a text and told her I needed what they owe me or I can't watch him.
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cmjohnson3047
Cmjohnson3047·Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Going thru that same bullshit with my sister. They wanna short change me because im family and they both make good money. If they were at a daycare they wouldn't do it so give me the same respect! So if i were you i would give them until friday to give you the remainder of the money owed or u stop watching him altogether
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
@mamabearxx2 yes it was.
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lottydotty
Taylor C·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
@monkeysmommie01 that's so scary!!!
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
@mamabearxx2 bahaha right. My other Honda I had was like that. But I'm like really shut off when I'm driving down a main hwy fml.
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lottydotty
Taylor C·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
@monkeysmommie01 😂😂😂 fucking picky cars. My Audi onlyyyyy took premium. Not even mid grade 😒
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
@mamabearxx2 yea my hubby put wawa gas in it and my Honda doesn't like it. Lol
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lottydotty
Taylor C·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
@monkeysmommie01 SMH that's horrible 🤦🤦🤦 did you get it fixed?
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
@mamabearxx2 that's what my husband said. And literally I, ant stand his dad. He is cocky, and a know it all .my car was shutting off while going down the road last week and he got mad that he had to pick the baby up.. Ummmm so you want me to risk your child life smh
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lottydotty
Taylor C·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
@monkeysmommie01 yeah see, I think they are just taking advantage of you being nice. Here daycare can range lol from $100-$1200 depending on the area lol
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
@mamabearxx2 yea I think that's what I'm going to do. Here day care is 400 a month. No meals no snacks .
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lottydotty
Taylor C·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
@monkeysmommie01 🤦 yeah I would be like I need the rest of the money or you can pay a daycare to watch him which is more and majority of them won't provide food
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monkeysmommie01
Kayla·Мама подростка
@mamabearxx2 and the crazy thing is she lives at home with her dad and pays no bills. Smh
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lottydotty
Taylor C·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
I would be like uhhh i need $170 more for this month
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