Why Wasn't I Enough for Him to Choose Us Over Drugs?
So phone is back on.. his parents made him turn it on after I recited the horrible fight.. I was headed to shelter but his parents made him leave and go to his grandmothers house. I dont feel comfortable here at all!! And I’m so heart broken to know my family is in pieces and I’m about to have a baby boy in 14 days.. and my now ex won’t even see his son born.. he won’t even be at the baby shower ... later on how do I even explain why he was there for our daughters but not our son.. my family has no clue what’s really going on.. because if they did they would make sure my kids father will never see me or the kids again.. I’m so hurt because I didn’t do anything to him for him to choose drugs and lying over me n the kids.. why wasn’t I enough for him to say no to them?? Why wasn’t I enough for him to work hard ... more importantly why isn’t his kids enough??? I feel like my life is over and I’m fighting everyday with myself to not give up...
Amanda ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I wouldn't bring it up that he was at one birth and not the other kids usually dont ask who watch me get birthed unless adults are taking about it in front of them
Brittney·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Drugs are so powerful. It doesn't compare or even land in the same category as you guys, trust me. I'm a recovering addict. Drugs does not mean he does not care. Please don't feel that way. He's probably going to do more now that he has felt he lost y'all so please don't hold it against him
Bitchy Trophy Wife 🏆👰🏼·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 10 лет)
My husband was an addict. He hid it from me for years. I gave him an ultimatum and he went to rehab. Maybe this will open his eyes and he will get clean and get his act together.
Lanie Jay·
It’s not a problem with you or what you did or didn’t do. It is HIS problem.
Mo 🙅🏻♀️·
Keep going love, keep trucking ahead. Life throws curve balls at you sometimes, and I’m sorry to say but addiction will make anyone not want anything to do with their family. Addiction is a bitch, and sometimes you have to tell yourself that it has him by the throat. You can’t change it, expect be supportive the only way he will get clean, is if he wants to.
Kristen ·
Мама троих детей
You won't even have to share that info on who was at whose birth. Stay strong obviously you have family and that's good for not alone. The best thing to do is not be with himall the fights and drugs you don't want around your kids. You will get through this maybe he will get help one day.