Yes and I was fine. And before people ask, I don't have to justify my actions to make you happy. I did what I wanted.

“could careless”

So there is less that you could care or you could be careless? Given the decision, I believe the latter is what you were going for 🤨😉

@resadewitt22234, I was explaining why people might think this question is for you because of how many weeks you are. Congrats on your appt. I didn’t ask about it though. It’s usually recommended to wait till 6weeks pp for the reasons I stated above. That’s why I Didn’t Have sex before that. Have a nice day.

@resadewitt22234 they said to me they rather not, but it was up to me and if we did so to use protection. Lol some ppl fail to forget.... We all adults here and last I checked a adult can do as they please, they just deal with any consequences if there is any, even if its infection, being pregnant b4 your 6wks(which happens more then often), pleasure or even pain. If it's not your up of tea then YOU don't do it, do be preaching to the quire bc YOU wouldnt do it. 🤗 Just saying...

She asked who has, she didnt ask to get lectured on not to and why, bc she obviously been told the risk...

I’ve already been clear since you want to know so much about me I had my appointment

@feeneythebashingqueen, my doctors never told me I had to wait they said when ever I feel ready for 1

Technically you asked if anyone had sex before 6 weeks pp. so that means you are bound to get yes and no’s. Your baby is one month? So your 4ish weeks pp which makes it seem like the question is about you. Either way it’s 1. a huge risk for infection. 2. You’re extremely fertile. And 3. Probably won’t feel that great. So just do what doctors recommend and wait.

With my 2nd I got two stiches. around 4 weeks I felt like it was good down there and had sex everything went fine. I'm a sex freak in a way lol I can't go without the d for a long time. sorry for the tmi

I had it about 4 weeks, it kind of hurt not bad though. Had my 6 week appointment and everything was fine

After my daughter was born, I had my postpartum appointment @ 4 weeks instead of 6 weeks because we were moving. My doctor cleared me at 4 and said I could do it, but it hurt like hell. In fact, with my both babies, sex was painful for me until about 8-9 weeks postpartum.

@queenmeeks, I doubt it would be pleasurable

I don’t even know why other moms bother to respond. If she wanna risk it all bc she wanna fuck, do u sis. No need to go back and forth with people who don’t use logic

I didn’t because I had a c-section, but one of my best girlfriends had sex 4 weeks after birth and got a major infection. Although you might want to have sex, it’s honestly just best to wait it out until you’re cleared at your 6 week PP check up. I’m sure there are plenty that have done it and been fine, but better safe than sorry. A few moments of pleasure isn’t worth the potential infection or getting pregnant again so soon because you’re extremely fertile right now.

I went to my doctor for my follow up at 5 wks and he cleared me, but when we tried it was honestly too painful for me personally. Tuesday will be 7 wks and It’s still painful

I did with my son. I felt fine so i was like yep i will lol then with harper i waited because of the c section

@bigmama18, and that I already know and completely understand but there is some people that do and are just fine and I wanted to know

@resadewitt22234, you assumed i asked like you did it . I just asked because I generally wanted to know , then you went off about STDs and other things. If you wanted just yes and experiences you should’ve made that clear in your post .

What everyone is saying there are important reasons why they tell you not to. That’s it. From personal experience I say do what the doctor says and wait. I was put on antibiotics and couldn’t have sex for two weeks anyways so 20 mins of a good time put me right back at the 6 week mark. Wasn’t worth it.

@momofemersonbliss, yeah but you asked a lot of why this and why that like I did it and have to answer to another grown ass woman I didn’t write this post to gets why’s but rather then yes and experiences

I did. Nothing bad happened. You have risks you take with having it early. 6 weeks is typical because you go back to the Dr about then to make sure your healing right. You have risks with everything you do in life. It's what ones your willing to take. Do what you want mama. I understand wanting to hear everybody's experience.

And just because I post on here doesn’t mean it’s about me ... I ask general questions that maybe somebody else will be embarrassed to ask about so don’t assume if y’all don’t know reasoning behind the post

@resadewitt22234, yet I’m still here 🤷🏽‍♀️ I wasn’t disrespectful or catty towards you in any shape or form.

“could careless”

So there is less that you could care or you could be careless? Given the decision, I believe the latter is what you were going for 🤨😉

@momofemersonbliss, you were dismissed like 5 post ago😂🤷🏾‍♀️

Yes, last child. And I got an infection. Lesson learned the hard way.

@laniejay, I’m not defensive lmao I could careless how you feel .. I just feel like if you haven’t went thru it and not a doctor you shouldn’t be speaking on a situation you know NOTHING about ..

Regardless of whether you asked for opinions or not it’s a public forum,

It kind of comes with the territory. People

Can yes man you till they’re blue in the face . Everyone is different , what works for one person may or may not work for you . No need to get so uppety about a lil advice , no where did anyone say you have to take it .

@resadewitt22234, so don’t get all defensive when you hear something you didn’t want to. 🤷🏼‍♀️ public post, public comments.

@lovelily, actually she clarified she only wanted comments from those who have... so even you misunderstood her post.

@gotmilk2018, actually I have and they said whenever I feel ready cause illl know my body the best I can go ahead if not I can wait 6 weeks and see how I feel

She's not looking for advice, folks. That's where the confusion comes in. She's asking about WHO HAS. Not WHY NOT.

@resadewitt22234 Honey, I blocked laniejay months ago. There is no arguing a point with her.

^^^ why don’t you go ask a medical professional instead of coming on a public forum and having a bitch fit when people say what you DON’T want to hear. Smdh

Because I can do what I please and I wasn’t asking for people who haven’t ... if you haven’t been thru it your self don’t try and tell somebody else it’s not a good decision when I’m sure in your life you haven’t made ALL the right decisions.. and I asked on a public forum because I wanted to hear everybody’s opinion not sitting here questioning me about it or about why I mad the post of you don’t like it or agree then you don’t have to comment easy as that

@resadewitt22234, not everyone asks other people their decisions if they’re so confident... if you don’t want to hear them, why ask on a public forum?

@laniejay, well everybody makes there own decisions if everybody did the right thing the world would be a perfect world 🌍

@resadewitt22234, no- that’s only a couple that I know who did and suffered. I do not know many who have because most know the risks and penetration isn’t worth it

@laniejay, okay that’s only a couple outta how many people who have ?

@resadewitt22234, you should have specified you only wanted to hear from those who have rather than asking a yes or no question. There’s a couple moms on here who I know for a fact got terrible infections from doing so.

I did. I had no tearing or stitches. I waited until I wasn’t in any pain and then just took it slow.

Yes and I was fine. And before people ask, I don't have to justify my actions to make you happy. I did what I wanted.

@momofemersonbliss, how bout you ask the people who done it and see what there reasons were

@resadewitt22234, why risk that either ?

@momofemersonbliss, same reason you risk STDS after having unprotected sex

Only comment if you have please and thankyou

You have a wound the size of a dinner plate in your uterus . Why would you risk infection?

No, risking scar tissue, infection, infertility from exposing the gaping wound In my uterus wasn’t something that was an attractive idea to me

Yes I have 3 kids and yes I have each timw. Even though your gonna get trash talk about it, but yes it happens all the time.