@littleonemorning I know. He gets in those types of moods. Its confusing

@nicolem10021, I can see that. It’s hard to think that you have a kid and everything else is up in the air. So I get that. I also don’t think he’s fair he’s trying say he doesn’t think he’s good enough, at that point.. why are you guys together, you know?p

@littleonemorning that's sweet. And being engaged and living together I think is a little better because at least you guys weren't just in the dating phase. My bf and I haven't even moved to thwnext phase and if I bring it up to him he'll just make it about him and how he's not good enough foe putting me through those feelings instead or actually acting on it because he always says he wants to be together forever it just gets to me sometimes

@chasha2017 its mainly my family and how I grew up. But I hear you. Some days it won't bother me then others I will just tear myself up about it

I loved with my husband out of wedlock for two years. 🤷‍♀️ we were engaged though and we did find out I was pregnant a month before the wedding. I also always kinda of knew I was going to marry my husband (even in our worst). We were given free will for a reason!

I got married when my son was 7 weeks old. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Don't let society determine how you feel about yourself. People will talk no matter what you do. If anyone has a problem with the way you choose to live your life, tell them to suck it 😜

I did it for a few years and it did bother me, morally/spiritually, emotionally, etc. We did make the move to marriage thou in 2012.