Ladies would you ever allow “grandma &grandpa “ to discipline your children ? . And I mean spanking or popping them on…

Absolutely! If they are around and their father or I can’t get to them, I expect them to be corrected. Now this simply applies to their paternal grandparents because there actually involved in their life’s.

Discipline yes, spanking no. But that’s because it’s something we avoid as well.

My parents know I don’t believe in corporal punishment, so they wouldn’t hit my child. They know if they did, I would set it TF off. Putting her in time out if she does something wrong is fine.

Hell no!

When we lived with my in laws I told them they could lightly and reasonable because nothing was baby proof and my fil didn’t want anything baby proof my son was 1.5 at the time and he wouldn’t listen to just no..

they have a doggie door and kaysen kept climbing out it I was getting frustrated because I couldn’t keep up with keeping him inside and a new born my fil was home and went outside and spanked him hard three times I cried like a baby and I couldn’t live there anymore him being around my kids gives me anxiety now so it’s really what your comfortable with and if your okay with it

No way.

@franny.93 We don't spank, but my parents are caregivers and my children need to respect them just as much as us. My in-laws who aren't around and feel the need when they are around to take over for me.... I'm not okay with. My theory with them is if I'm present (which I always will be) I am their mother, I can handle my kids. I'm the one who cares for them 24/7. I don't even like them to tell my kids no.

Thank you ladies ! My son “hit “ my mom in her face so she spanked him I heard more than one spank . He ran to the porch as she was decorating he acted up and as I was walking Down the hall I heard it but didn’t see . She’s very hard to approach lol . It’s her way or no way , she takes everything as a dig

My mom spanked my son and way too hard. Shes really not a part of our lives anymore. We dont spank and he wasnt even two at the time. By faith I've forgiven her but she'll never be alone with any of my children again.

@scidg3, yea I have tried to explain to my mom the same way it’s all about boundaries. My dad is the only one who understands lol

Personally I wouldn't mind my mom spanking my kids cause she my mom hell she spank me lol. If it was something i disagreed with id just tell her nah leave them alone not that serious. If its the dads mom I can see where let me know ill handel it works cause you dont know how there displine style is, but I mean its your child so its your choice.

@franny.93 Yes, it is, that's a tough one. My parents and I are similar when it comes to that. Maybe your dad can help you! 😄

I feel if my kids are with them and they act up then yeah, I mean they raised me. My dad wouldn't even if I told him he could but my mom will open a can lol

@reinabella_xoxo I completely agree! My dad doesnt see my daughter much and I'd be upset if he disciplined her, but my in laws I have 0 problem with them disciplining her... because they are very much involved plus they treat me as their own:) even my mom I'd be fine with to a point

I believe if they are watching them yes. They need to know that while you are at grandmas and grandpas they are in charge and you need to listen and if not we’ll you are going to be disciplined by them. Or they will do what they want because they will

Know that only mom and dad can discipline what ever that discipline happens to be