I don't know if anyone else felt/feels this way but I'm only 22 and the first in my friend group to get pregnant and it's really lonely because most of them just want to like go bar hopping or travel and none of them understand what it's like to be pregnant:( I want some mom friends that understand ya know? Especially since I just moved I don't really have anyone
@yamip91 I'm sorry you went through that! If you ever want a friend or someone to chat with I'm here! I completely hear what you're saying, I started to realize that when i only had like one or two people who still reached out after I got pregnant. Don't need those other people anyway 💁
@teighlor_dantzler I'd love that! I just moved to Waterbury CT idk if that's any closer, but I'm always down to message with people :) I'm going to be a SAHM for awhile until I find a job in my field so I can only imagine that it gets lonely
I had 0 frinds before getting pregnant and obviously have 0 friends now....but I went through something similar with my brother...long story short we are no longer in contact because aside from all of our issues and the BS he did to us, he doesnt understand that I am a mother, my girls come first! They have a routine and a bedtime. I cant just go out until 3-4 am like we used to before I had them.I have also changed as a person, motherhood changed me...
so what Im saying is, those are not really your friends, if they were then they would understand you. Pregnancy brings out everyones true colors.
My friends are the same way. I have a almost 2 year old and all my friends wanna do is go drink and party and stuff. I'm about to be 23 in a few days I had my baby when I was 21. So you can always message me to talk if you want sweetie.
I understand I got pregnant at 19 with my first and basically lost all of my friend 🤷
You’re not alone. I think a lot of us have been through this. Try not to feel too down about it! The trash is taking itself out. You’ll make new friends.