I noticed if there's something my son wants and I don't give it to him, he of course throws a…

@fakoff.diehexe oh well

Can be good or can't be good. Is he supposed to have it? If not, then my suggestion is keep it away and out of reach. If he is ok to have it, good job momma! Teach him good behaviour equals reward. Patience is virtue.

@imaboymom oh yeah things he can have. Before he half ate a banana and wanted another, however I told him of he wanted another he had to finish the one he had. So I put the other bananas out of reach, which yknow theyre smart. So I waited for him to calm down and gave him the banana he was eating back and he gave me a kiss and ran away lol

Note: I didn't take his banana away he handed it to me lol

@bluepenguin ^.^ temperament is a work in progress but even as their older and "calmer" they will have their days. We got this! Lol :)

You know whats hard sometimes? They see how we react and how our patience is. I try to keep a straight face and not yell.. :o

@imaboymom yeah I try to be as patient as possible. I usually am. His daddy thinks I spoil him too much, honestly I don't think he's spoiled, he is definitely a mamas boy though. He's a good boy. He's friendly, and caring with other kids, and even with me, I'm glad he's become a sweet and caring boy. I remember one time he was playing at the park with a kid his age and the kid fell and started crying so Noah came and looked concerned and out his hand on the kids back to see if he is okay it's so sweet. Thing is, he is never really around kids...so I'm surprised he did that :o

I got way off topic haha

I grew up in a house with abuse and fighting and I know there will be times where no is no and sometimes you have to be stern, but I don't want fighting or yelling. So that's why I take a more gentle and calm approach.

@bluepenguin wow see! You have every right to be proud. Even with the right discipline, with proper precautions, etc not always will children go the direction the parents want. Ive been judged all my pregnancy and as a new mom. Ive done a damn good job as a mom and no one knows how hard you work or your full story. They dont walk in your shoes. They can be snotty, judge you, etc.

You're boy is a good boy. Blessings!