I noticed if there's something my son wants and I don't give it to him, he of course throws a tantrum, then when he calms down and I eventually give it to him, he gives me a kiss....is that a good thing? Like a thank you? Lol
JamiМама сына (2 года), беременна (17 нед.)
I grew up in a house with abuse and fighting and I know there will be times where no is no and sometimes you have to be stern, but I don't want fighting or yelling. So that's why I take a more gentle and calm approach.
JamiМама сына (2 года), беременна (17 нед.)
@imaboymom yeah I try to be as patient as possible. I usually am. His daddy thinks I spoil him too much, honestly I don't think he's spoiled, he is definitely a mamas boy though. He's a good boy. He's friendly, and caring with other kids, and even with me, I'm glad he's become a sweet and caring boy. I remember one time he was playing at the park with a kid his age and the kid fell and started crying so Noah came and looked concerned and out his hand on the kids back to see if he is okay it's so sweet. Thing is, he is never really around kids...so I'm surprised he did that :o
I got way off topic haha
StarsnstripesМама сына (1 год)
You know whats hard sometimes? They see how we react and how our patience is. I try to keep a straight face and not yell.. :o
StarsnstripesМама сына (1 год)
@bluepenguin ^.^ temperament is a work in progress but even as their older and "calmer" they will have their days. We got this! Lol :)
JamiМама сына (2 года), беременна (17 нед.)
Note: I didn't take his banana away he handed it to me lol
JamiМама сына (2 года), беременна (17 нед.)
@imaboymom oh yeah things he can have. Before he half ate a banana and wanted another, however I told him of he wanted another he had to finish the one he had. So I put the other bananas out of reach, which yknow theyre smart. So I waited for him to calm down and gave him the banana he was eating back and he gave me a kiss and ran away lol
StarsnstripesМама сына (1 год)
Can be good or can't be good. Is he supposed to have it? If not, then my suggestion is keep it away and out of reach. If he is ok to have it, good job momma! Teach him good behaviour equals reward. Patience is virtue.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
I literally have to only give my dad and his gf enough for 1 bottle when I drop him off there every Tuesday because last week they were about to give him 6oz in an hour like are you crazy they said because he was crying, play with him give him attention and he won't cry pick him up and walk around with him. I told him he gets 3 oz at 7pm they ended up not giving him the 3 oz till 7:30 and we got there at 8:30 to pick him up and was feeding him again I lost my mind it pisses me off bc he has a schedule and they totally didn't listen
When can I start giving my son regular milk? He turns 10 months in 2 days. I bought unsweetened almond milk yesterday so he can try. Would that be okay? I’m lowkey tired of him on formula but I mean he’s still a baby lol.
my baby daddy punched me in my nose twice. All because the phone he has I GAVE IT TO HIM! Its MyOld Phone And he been talking to this girl and so i said give me my phone back! I didnt give it to you for that reason. And i got it and he was trying to take it back and he hit me .
Starsnstripes·Мама сына (1 год)
@bluepenguin wow see! You have every right to be proud. Even with the right discipline, with proper precautions, etc not always will children go the direction the parents want. Ive been judged all my pregnancy and as a new mom. Ive done a damn good job as a mom and no one knows how hard you work or your full story. They dont walk in your shoes. They can be snotty, judge you, etc.
You're boy is a good boy. Blessings!
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