I have nobody to talk to about this so I guess I’ll post this here. I’m at a point in my life where…
I have nobody to talk to about this so I guess I’ll post this here. I’m at a point in my life where I’m just extremely confused, about my sexuality that is. I have a kid and want more kids but I honestly think I may be lesbian and that’s a hard pill for me to swallow. I’m dating someone now and it’s been miserable, not because he isn’t a great guy but because I don’t feel an ounce affectionate towards him. And this isn’t the first time this has happened either, it’s been this way in all my relationships. Whirl wind romance then a month later I’m wonder what I’m doing because I’m not happy. I just chocked it down to being that I’m not an affectionate person and have a verying sex drive but the more I think about it I’m like “oh god I might be lesbian”. But then again I’ve never been in a relationship with a girl so what do I know? I know I’ve felt this way in past relationships but have just trucked through thinking it was only a faze or that I was unhappy. I don’t know what to do anymore, it’s driving me crazy.
Chapssss·
When that whirl wind happens... why is that? Maybe just being in any relationship isn’t for you? Some people are fine just being alone or dating. You don’t HAVE TO be with someone. Perhaps there is something in your past hindering you from feeling that fullness in relationships? Also, it took a couple of months for hubby to “like or take interest in me” lol he wasn’t affectionate. We talked 2 years, then dated 6 years, and now married 2 years. But everyone is different.
Jelly 🔮·
You should do what makes you happy before it’s to late cause life flashes before your eyes , you don’t want to waste you’re time on just wondering , and even if you did want more kids there are plenty of ways to do it, good luck
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
Are you attracted to women though?
Hayley·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam, oh yes definitely. I have been since the 3rd grade but grew up in a strict family so then I thought it was just the way friends felt about each other and didn’t even know being lesbian was a thing. Like you know how in grade school you’d have a “boyfriend” well I had a “girlfriend” who role played on the play ground as my “boyfriend” if that makes sense. Then once I got to high school I started to notice girls more but continued to date guys and just thought I was bi, would kiss friends at parties, then afterward question who I really was. I honestly just feel conflicted now because I feel like I am but don’t know how to except it I guess?
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
You definitely remind me of a lesbian friend I have 😊 same story almost. Dated guys forever, never felt right. I think you won't fully know until you try a relationship with a woman though. Theres some awesome lesbian channels on youtube. Maybe you can find someone to relate to. Listen to some stories and see how you feel about it all.
Shayla Galloway ·
Explore your options if u are attracted to women and think it what u want.. test it out see if the feeling is still there