Had another moment again where i felt my daughter might have spd its hard to handle we where in a store and when i told her she couldn’t have the “grow in water” toy because shes to impatient and last time she got upset she couldn’t play with it so she cried insisting it would be sad and nobody would “adopt” it after much time trying to verbally calm her (was super close to ending the tantrum) i lightly grazed her back with my fingers and she had an absolute meltdown and started flailing her arms like i hurt her i managed to calm her but compromising and telling her if she could manage to calm down before we got to checkout she could maybe get some candy with which she tried hard to stop crying but though she stopped making noise the tears kept going like she didn’t have control of them when we got to check out she looked at me and asked if she earned the candy? I told her yes and she was ecstatic and her mood changed drastically. This whole episode has me worried because it wasnt a “normal” tantrum but kinda like she didnt have control over the whole thing??? (Any ideas what she might have or what it could be? #mommywhoneedshelp)
Rant!
My sitter used cottonelle wet wipes on my baby! Now she has huge rash!!! I totally get that my SO forgot to put the wipes in her diaper bag. But she could have told one of us and we could have brought her some or she could have went to the store and I could pay her back. I don't get it. She buys her clothes and toys, takes her places while I'm at work. The store is literally a 5 minute walk from her house. But she decided cottonelle wipes are ok? Ugh. Rant over.

Last night I held the best dog I have ever had while she took her last breath. I got her when I was 19 years old, and she has been the greatest dog I could have ever asked for. She would have been 12 tomorrow. I love you so much Lola. I’ll see you again someday ♥️
Advice for tantrums
I know a toddler having tantrums is normal. But do y'all have any advice on how to soothe the child to try to help? When dd has her tantrums she cannot be touched. I can't rub her back or pick her up or anything it makes it 100x worse. It breaks my heart because I want to help her. But when that mindset takes over it's like she just can't be calmed. I've tried sitting next to her and talk calmly. She gets even more angry. It gets to the point that she starts biting objects a...

Her helmet she got so she can be safe (as she told me) when she rides her bike and scooter lol

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