I never post on here and don’t come on here much, but I’m hopeing for some words of same sort of stories or advice…

I never post on here and don’t come on here much, but I’m hopeing for some words of same sort of stories or advice desperately in need of it. So I have a 3 year old boy who’s now at a nursery 3 morning and 2 full days a week his key worker and often said he’s easily distracted and finds it hard to sit and complete a activity and he’s full of beans but has a slight anger when he don’t get his own way and can just stand and scream and clench his fists and that he don’t understand the concept or waiting for his turn or to share and he also repeats phrases m etc.. she’s also said that’s he’s the most loving little boy and he’s always so happy to do thing and loves to see the other children but he don’t really want make friends and doesn’t really interact in a conversation, she’s spoken to me about it and wants to do a re-feral to early learning foundation people(can’t quite remember) I’ve got a bitch of a sister in law and she’s thinks she knows everything without having any children of her own and keeps telling me he has autism and now with his teacher doing this re-feral I’m so scared and don’t know how strong I am to take this,

What I’m asking I guess is does anyone have any same experience and what was the outcome,

Thanks for reading x