Everyone keeps telling me to try the 'cry it out'method with my daughter because its quick and effective since she needs to learn how to sleep in her crib. And i tried and my poor child cried for a whole hour and i just couldn't take it. The little girl cried so violently she started to vomit and now i just feel so guilty about the whole thing. I will NEVER EVER do that to my child again. That method is just cruel, torturous and unbearable. What's the point of trying to let a child cry herself to sleep just to have her wake up in the morning all fussy and clingy from the trauma. I just feel like the worst mom right now😞. I need to find a balance between teaching her how to self sooth and providing loving support without interfering with the learning experience and i don't even know where to begin.