How do we choose between $30 an hour or 20$ an hour? Obviously $30. But I’ll be 15 hours away from family in another state. My kids would grow up without their grandparents or u...

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How do we choose between $30 an hour or 20$ an hour? Obviously $30. But I’ll be 15 hours away from family in another state. My kids would grow up without their grandparents or uncles and cousins and I’ll be alone with the kids all day while hubby is at work. He’ll eventually make friends at work but I won’t since I’m always home with the kids ☹️ got 5 months to choose where we are going before hubby graduates. Indiana or NC where my family is ☹️

Natalie · Answer

@lostmyveecard, only on holidays when they have days off 😩 I’m only going to be able to see my parents 3 times a year 😢

Veemit Chell · Answer

@njgriffin maybe your family would be willing to make the trip

Natalie · Answer

@lostmyveecard, lol I HATE going alone and on top of that with two little kids 😳

Veemit Chell · Answer

@njgriffin taking a train isn't too expensive if you wanted a week to visit family even if he's working, and it's easier than it seems lol

Natalie · Answer

@lostmyveecard, yeah but probably for only holidays when hubby has Days off

Veemit Chell · Answer

For $30/hour you'll have the money to visit frequently

Natalie · Answer

@alejandra1x, he actually has no one to leave behind lol he only talks to his grandma since he really dosnt have much family and isn’t really close to them. I on the other hand have ALOT of family and close to every since on of them

🥀⛥̷A̶n̵g̵i̴e̷⛥̴🍉 · Answer

@njgriffin, you just described my life lol. All my family are in NY, we have moved to VA, CA back to VA. It takes time to adjust if you make that move which seems like you are leaning towards, as long as you and your husband are going through this hand in hand you two will make it work. He is also making sacrifices leaving family but he sees you and your babies are worth it.

Natalie · Answer

@swedishmomma, @alejandra1x, in Indiana I’ll literally have no one. Not friends or family ☹️ hubby and I won’t ever get one on one time or go on dates. And I feel bad that my parents won’t get to see their grand babies often ☹️ it’s just a hard choice. Money can buy happiness but it’ll get us a lot of things we do need 😖

Annika · Answer

I'm like the other lady commenting here, I'm an army wife and stuck in NC, 14 hours away from my family. You do get used to it. Its a bit more stressful but you learn to deal with it.

🥀⛥̷A̶n̵g̵i̴e̷⛥̴🍉 · Answer

That’s my navy wife life lol. I got used to it and I visit family as much as I can. If benefits your family I say go for it.

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