Okay my timing is not great man... my fiance step father has cancer and has to go through chemo and radiation... right…
Okay my timing is not great man... my fiance step father has cancer and has to go through chemo and radiation... right now I have 2 kids I have an almost 2 year old and a almost 5 month old and I'm pregnant again... we are soon going to have to tell everyone..... I'm not working and desperately trying to find a job. My fiance works the night shift and I don't drive just yet... so my timing is not the best we weren't really trying either I just got on the bc pill because I've had iuds, patches, depo, and the arm implant they all don't work for me. I'm just don't know what we should do????
I wasn't even on the pill that long.
Rachel·
What do you mean “what you should do?”
Deliaha Day·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mommytok like if we should tell his family right now or wait a couple months????
Rachel·
@mama.of.2.under.2, ohhh okay. I think it’s totally up to you, a pregnancy announcement could be exciting to the family and lift spirits a little? Whenever you’re ready to announce it.
Deliaha Day·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mommytok yeah I think we are going to wait till the new year
Mamachey·
Lots of people wait till there like 14 weeks even if they dont have any family issues so you got some time
Deliaha Day·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mamachey yeah with my daughter I waited till I was about 10-11 weeks to tell other family members likes Aunts cousins. Then I waited till I was 16 weeks to tell my sisters and mom. So this time I think we are going to wait till the new year.
Holly·
Мама троих детей
My mom was fighting cancer going through chemo & radiation while I was TTC #3, all I ever wanted was to tell her I was pregnant to give her something exciting to look forward to! Something positive and happy. My body wouldn’t allow me to conceive until a year after her passing, too much stress. Anyways thats not the point. Tell his step-father first privately, give him that special gift! 💗 Praying for you all!!
Deliaha Day·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@hollyn216 awe I'm so sorry for your loss.... and he wants us both to tell everyone at the same time. And thank you