Has anyone ever debated having more kids? What we’re your reasons and what was your decision?
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Well when I got pregnant this time around, I practically had to beg my husband to agree to plan this baby and we decided this would be our last since they are such a a dang handful and it’s been such a nightmare caring for my toddler while pregnant this time around so I was feeling good about just two kids... but now my husband keeps bringing up having a #3 which is confusing to me but now I’m kind of thinking maybe it would be cool to have a big family but... the thought of caring for 2 kids while pregnant is terrifying so IF we do a number 3, my daughters will need to be old enough to basically care for themselves as far as getting into car seats, going up and down steps, not being so needy, being able to talk and tell me what they need rather than screaming their heads off lol bc I cannot haul around a toddler while pregnant again.. it’s too painful 😩. I had an overwhelming urge to have another baby with this pregnancy so I assume that will happen again if and when I am ready for #3
@aengs2, also my last pregnancy and labor were awful experiences. But I feel like if I just say no, I’m going to really regret it.
@aengs2, that’s exactly how I feel but it’s reversed for us. I want another baby. He doesn’t.
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Husband and I were stuck we knew we wanted more just didn’t know when I also know I wanted my kids close in age but not how close I was pretty much conflicted until I became pregnant again and when I calculated everything up it’s a perfect time but if this one is a girl then we think we’re done
@aengs2, give yourself time, you have such a small baby, with time I think you’ll know.
We're stuck on this right now too. My husband really wants more kids and I'm just not sure. I've never felt more conflicted in my life. Someone tell me what to do. 😭
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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