It's the end of day two and I'm already exhausted. I sat there looking at my baby tonight- the one I…
It's the end of day two and I'm already exhausted. I sat there looking at my baby tonight- the one I watched come out of my vagina- and all I wanted to do was cry.
Then continued to cry myself to sleep.
I don't feel that connection. The one every mom says they get the second they see there baby. To me he's just another baby. And I hate myself for it.
I love him don't get me wrong. I'd be absolutely devastated if anything happened to him. But.. I don't know how to explain it..
A·
Мама двоих (младенец)
You're not alone. Not everyone feels an instant connection. I didn't with either baby (and I know many others that have said the same) and there's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes it just takes time. You just have to take it one day at a time and it'll get better. Congrats on your new bundle of love!
Samantha·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (2 нед.)
Not everyone has that instant connection. Give yourself sometime, you just had a baby. Your hormones are literally everywhere.
Mamachey·
I havent given birth yet but compared to my other 4 pregnancies I have zero connection this baby feels like a stranger!!
Many people feel the same its ok
It will pass
Illyra Smale·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mamachey @samanthalynnshaw21 @aengs2 thanks guys. That does make me feel a bit better
Melody ·
Мама троих детей
The connection will come in time, I feel bad for my girls because with my new guy I feel that connection that I never had with my twins when they were born, they were my first and I thought something was wrong with me, but it’s ok because the connection came. Sometimes you just feel differently towards the littles and that’s ok too
Melody ·
Мама троих детей
And congrats on your new baby as well!!!