I need advice! How do you ladies do it with two or more kids?? I recently found out I was pregnant, I did it on purpose, did not think it would happen so fast. Took 3 years for my son. I am terrified of having two at once! My son sleeps great and is generally happy. I just don’t know how how to manage two? I just worry I won’t have the time or energy for both and I don’t want my son to feel neglected. It’s probably just the hormones but I am freaking out a little. Any tips or happy thoughts are welcome!
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@mombie., @brownsugarluv, thanks for the encouragement ladies. I know how lucky I am that my son sleeps 10 hours a night. I think that’s why I am extra nervous! How could I get that lucky twice.
2 kids was easy. The transition was smooth. For the most part they’re best friends.
Everyone handles it differently. What works for one family may not work for the next. I try to stay organized and plan ahead. Make sure you have schedule time for yourself and relationship. I personally don’t have much help but I utilize what I do. My home isn’t always perfect and I’m a mess most of the time. But it’s so rewarding to have their unconditional love. Although they can be turds. 🤷♀️
It seems a lot harder than it actually is!!! I stress big time my whole pregnancy and honestly they both get a lot of attention and there the best of friends of course kaysen wasn’t happy/didn’t understand having a new baby so the first week or two were rough here and there but it wasn’t bad!!! But schedule wise you will get there!! Just remember baby will sleep a lot as a newborn so that helps and he/she will start staying away more and more as they get older and that to me helped a lot we slowly changed and got into a routine and honestly both my kids slept like crap so the fact your oldest is already a good sleeper is awesome
@elijahsmom, thanks I will search for that now!
Theres a group that can help probally . its called back to back babies. Its help me alot and taken alot of stress off as well
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