I need advice! How do you ladies do it with two or more kids?? I recently found out I was pregnant, I did it on purpose, did not think it would happen so fast. Took 3 years for my son. I am terrified of having two at once! My son sleeps great and is generally happy. I just don’t know how how to manage two? I just worry I won’t have the time or energy for both and I don’t want my son to feel neglected. It’s probably just the hormones but I am freaking out a little. Any tips or happy thoughts are welcome!
@mombie., @brownsugarluv, thanks for the encouragement ladies. I know how lucky I am that my son sleeps 10 hours a night. I think that’s why I am extra nervous! How could I get that lucky twice.
2 kids was easy. The transition was smooth. For the most part they’re best friends.
Everyone handles it differently. What works for one family may not work for the next. I try to stay organized and plan ahead. Make sure you have schedule time for yourself and relationship. I personally don’t have much help but I utilize what I do. My home isn’t always perfect and I’m a mess most of the time. But it’s so rewarding to have their unconditional love. Although they can be turds. 🤷♀️
It seems a lot harder than it actually is!!! I stress big time my whole pregnancy and honestly they both get a lot of attention and there the best of friends of course kaysen wasn’t happy/didn’t understand having a new baby so the first week or two were rough here and there but it wasn’t bad!!! But schedule wise you will get there!! Just remember baby will sleep a lot as a newborn so that helps and he/she will start staying away more and more as they get older and that to me helped a lot we slowly changed and got into a routine and honestly both my kids slept like crap so the fact your oldest is already a good sleeper is awesome
@elijahsmom, thanks I will search for that now!
Theres a group that can help probally . its called back to back babies. Its help me alot and taken alot of stress off as well
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TMI question but just out of curiosity, how often do you have sexy time with your SO? If you don’t want to answer the question or you don’t agree with my question then SCROLL ON because guess what, sex is normal and natural. 🙄 I’ll start, once a week. I know, I know, my sex life sucks 😩
How did you find out?
Ok so I want to know how everyone found out you were pregnant! Were you trying, was it morning sickness or did you just have a feeling?
It will fall into place. Don’t stress over things that haven’t happened yet.. Save your energy lol 😂