Really torn on if I want to get my tubes tied after this baby , I dont think I want anymore, my husband says he doesnt and my mom says three is enough but still its permanent it's such a big decision it scares me 😟 I have 3 babies , 3 miscarriages and a tubal pregnancy and birth control makes my hormones and me crazy so I don't know what other choice there is to be absolutley sure I dont get pregnant by accident anytime soon . I just dont wanna end up regretting it when I get older if life would change.
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I signed for getting mines tied well actually they changed it to cutting them now apparently most don’t tie anymore . But lately I’ve been thinking about not doing it I don’t want anymore since I have a 9yr old a 1yr old and one on the way in 8 weeks , so I’m deff good but to me that’s so permanent and I think I want to always be in control of rather I can have kids or not so most likely I will let them know before my c-section that I don’t want to do that anymore
Thank you all I'm gonna look into the IUD I didnt know there was a 10 year one I've always used the 3 year implant and it gave me crazy side affects!
I'm 33 with number 4 on the way. And I'm doing it. Personal choice. Need to make sure that is what's best for you. No more birth control is a plus for me. No need to worry about side affects. I've always wanted to adopt too. So the window for more kids is never really closed.
Ahhh I’m in the same boat , people keep telling me to tie my tubes , but I mean it’s something that can be undone , something I’m going to live with , for the rest of my life. So I just choose birth control because yes I’m going to have my 3rd child . And 3 kids is enough for me .... BUT that’s how I am feeling right now , I don’t know in a couple of years we want more or anything can happen . Just really think about it . It’s your body at the end of the day.
You could also get the copper iud it is hormone free.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
I dont want to leave my baby in daycare I want my baby with me she is so small I want to take care of her!!!!
I Have a question mommies I’m a First Time Mom and everyone keeps saying when my baby get here there gonna take my baby but I don’t trust people like that and I promise I’m not trying to be mean but I don’t want anyone to have a my baby and I know people are going to ask so my question is How do you say no without being mean ?🤔 I don’t even plan on letting my child spend the night with people when he gets older it’s just so much happen to me as a kid and I don’t want that for my baby
So I wanted to name my daughter Serenity & then my brother & parents called me after they had a whole house meeting saying the name “wouldn’t get her a job”.. now I’m back to square one 🙄
Going through the same thing. So says he's too old for anymore. Im not so sure.