@apples, my son is the same

@apples thats why I say find someone who could handle it for a couple hours

@ladyblauvelt I just feel bad for whomever we leave her with

@ladyblauvelt we might have to do that

You might have to just break her of it. Find a weekend you want to go out and find someone willing to deal with the fit and is able to calm her down, maybe a grandma or grandpa or a favorite aunt, then just go and hopefully she'll see that it's not to bad and you'll always be back