So apparently all day my husband has been thinking about our sex life and just now he TEXTED me…

So apparently all day my husband has been thinking about our sex life and just now he TEXTED me asking if I think our sex life is stale....... like WTF?? You don't give me sex and when you do it's always rushed because of the baby and you won't even let us get a babysitter for us to have sex time because if it's "forced" or planned then it won't work... but you can masturbate in the shower every morning before work because it's faster and easier than waking up when you should and having sex with your wife...so you can then rush at the last second off to work and feel better about yourself but not be in the mood for sex at all really when I want sex and get mad if I'm playful... then you get pissed off if I want to use a toy??? I'm losing my mind here!!!!!!!! 😵😡😭😰😵