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My kids were crying none stop when my SO got home... I felt useless and immediately came to my room,…

My kids were crying none stop when my SO got home... I felt useless and immediately came to my room, locked myself in and just balled up to cry. I feel completely useless at this point, I can't stop crying. He just came to tell me he was going on a car ride with them and to try to relax and he left (which made me feel even worst because he worked 12hrs) Both of my sons are Autistic and I don't think everyone understands the challenges that comes with it. Tantrums every little while, fights, guessing games... I love them to death but i feel like a complete idiot that's good for nothing at this point. 😞

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prestonjeanetta0120

Jeanetta

Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

I’m sorry you feel that way I can’t imagine how your feeling but I’m sure your doing an awesome job mama !! Even when you feel your not . Have you tried to find a group with mamas that also have autistic babies so you can have that support to uplift you when you need . Cause nothing helps more than to be able to talk to other mommies who can relate to exactly what your going through with your boys

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skyee.niicole4

sheridan nicole

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)

I'm so so sorry your going thru this hun I dont know what it's like to have a precious autistic child but this happens to me with just our 1 year old and I'm wanting to say I'm glad that yall work as a team in these moments where my SO just doesn't understand what it's like bein pregnant as hell and dealing with emotions on top of a screaming baby , I'm proud of your SO and you for bein a team and I hope you feel better after they calm down your a tough mommy :)

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jenzuniga

Jenny

I am so sorry you are having a rough time! If you need to vent or any advice please let me know! I don’t have a child with autism, but I do work with children who have autism and maybe I can be of some help to you. Prayers!!!

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veemndz

VeeMndz

@prestonjeanetta0120 @skyee.niicole4 @jenzuniga

Thank you for the kind words and support ladies. I really do feel at my lowest right now. I'm in a chat for moms with children whom are autistic but it's not active at all. I grew to understand that not every day will be easy, I'm only human and at times I need to let it out. My SO is definitely my rock at this point and im grateful.

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sweet_pea1

Sweet_pea

I’m sorry 🤗. I have a dd with autism, so I can how hard it can be. She can have times like this and I feel helpless because I’m trying everything to help her, but nothing works. Your boys know your there and your doing everything you can. Do you get any help or services for them? You and your dh worked well together.

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prestonjeanetta0120

Jeanetta

Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

@veemndz, remember everything you just said . Your only human and at times you need to just let it out . We all been there before and that’s fine it’s about what we do after that makes it’s count . Your boys are very lucky to have you !! And your husband knows that your doing your best as well and your lucky to have someone like him to step in when you need a moment . You rock momma hold your crown 🙂

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skyee.niicole4

sheridan nicole

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)

@veemndz very welcome mama , your doin the best you can and that's all we can do , trust me I'm learning that the hard way myself but your right were just human and havin kids people think were Kim impossible but were not .. that just reminded me of the movie bad moms lol too funny and these moments can be funny too hun it just seems so real and hard rn but you got this better than me and I only have a 1 year old atm lol so kudos to you 😊😉😊

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veemndz

VeeMndz

@sweet_pea1 thank you hunn❤ my 10yr old goes to school and receives all services. My 3yr old receives therapies as well. On top of that I have my 1yr old daughter and 36wks pregnant. All my pregnancy I've been fine, but now that im this big and I'm limited on movement i feel overwhelmed. Just hoping everything goes back to normal once we have the baby

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sweet_pea1

Sweet_pea

@veemndz, aww, if I could help you out I would. You have your hands full for sure. That’s wonderful your boys both get services. My dd will be 3 soon and we’re starting to do her IEP and find private services as well. We will keep her ABA, but even this is overwhelming to me and has had me in tears. Your doing amazing job with all your kids, it will be an adjustment after the new baby, but you’ll have your body back and will find your grove 🤗

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