After so many ups and downs when do you call it quits with ur partner, i mean the day calls r less, texts turn into…

After so many ups and downs when do you call it quits with ur partner, i mean the day calls r less, texts turn into annoyance, the apologies dont come any more, n cuddling is a thing of the past, bed talks turn into silent social media entertainment and the kisses arent the same. I know after going through so much with the birth and then surgery that it was a rough transition and i have changed somewhat, bt i still wait by the door each night and i still text my unanswered text each day and i still take care of the baby, the house and ensure there is a hot dinner. Even intimacy comes with excuses. I feel unloved and unappreciated and i wonder if its enough