So my husband just admitted to me that almost every morning he masturbates in the shower because…

I'm sorry mama. Any chance he was just joking about his birthday? I know a lot of my friends say their husbands have "extra long showers" but they dont hold out in the bedroom though. He should compromise because it would make you happy. I hope things get better

Can you guys get someone to watch baby? It sounds like you need a weekend getaway or even one night to yourselves

Wtf, you’re married, what makes him think it’s appropriate to ask for a three way?! 😳

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I think you need to have an open and direct conversation with him about how you are feeling.

Was he joking about the 3way? If you want some sex wake him up with some head. Hell fire. He won’t tell you no then.

girrl go &’ get some. if he wakes up late, oh well! i guess he’s gone be late!

but about that 3 way, thats not even funny as a joke when your sex life is lacking 🙄

It seems to me you need to have a long talk with him! I also agree with @damn.it.red @rndmshtt if you want that D, get after it! He sounds lazy from what you said, maybe try coming onto him yourself at 4 in the morning.

@rochelleyayy @ecahanes @scruffy.nerf.herder @damn.it.red @rndmshtt @mom_wife_witch

Sadly he's not joking. Also we live 3 hours away from anyone that could watch the baby for us for that long. Oh and he hates blowjobs... and if he's not in the mood and I try to get some he gets pissed off and we get into a fight and then I won't get sex for 2 months. He's such a girl when it comes to things like clothes, food, and sex. Plus I can't make him late to work because he works for the state and military. If he's late it's not like a small thing.

What hurts worse is the last few times we've had sex all he did was talk about having the 3way and what he wanted to happen to the other girl and that's what got him so excited and even got him off. Not the fact that he was in me or anything.

@kaytibug2009, y’all need to sit down and have a serious talk.

@damn.it.red it's hard to talk to him about anything now days. He's always playing games on his phone while having the TV turned up loud. When I want to talk he won't even look at me and he ignores me unless we're talking about food or his military schedule. The only time we even talk about the baby is when she gets sick or hurt and I'm yelling at him to help deal with her.

I'm almost to the point of not talking to him or doing anything with him and see how long he will go with it. Sadly though I'm scared he'll find someone else to do if I say no to him or ignore him.

WOW