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Guys...my kiddo is two I am a ftm. I know all about terrible two's. But I have no idea how to get…

Guys...my kiddo is two I am a ftm. I know all about terrible two's. But I have no idea how to get control of it. My daughter is stubborn. Totally ignores me about Everything. I raise my voice at her a lot. And sometimes spank with a diaper on. But she will literally laugh at me. Time out isn't a thing she won't sit still. But she's also bit a girl at daycare twice and it bruised. I literally hate being the mean mom to her but when she is at her dads she doesn't act like this(we aren't together) and I feel like I'm going to push her away to the point of her not wanting me anymore. Keep in mind 95 percent of our day today involved tantrum, crying, and fighting with her uncle who is also 2. Like I've hit rock bottom and I'm totally lost on how to get a grip on this

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mrs.hibben

Hibben

My son went through a biting faze enough he is fairly well behaved. Every child is different you need to find something that works you your daughter and stick with it. Make sure you’re follow through. She naughty take the toy away, tell her way you’re taking away. Tell if she good she can have it back. Sounds simple but if she knows you’re not going to do it she keep acting up. Try to stay positive.

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mrs.hibben

Hibben

Side note you should make sure her straps are untwisted. Definitely safer for her.😊

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briiiannaaaxo000

brii

Мама дочки (2 года)

@mrs.hibben fixed them today☺

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theharmans2018

Katy

I was in day care for several years we were encouraged positive reinforcement techniques and behavioral charts. Not to say they work for everyone but with some they did. We were encouraged of course never to raise our voices or touch the children. With your own I'm sure better said than done. We were told with time out it's one minute per age so for her two minutes and only two times if gets back up from time out to tell them to go back and bring them back. Afterwards we were told to bring back not saying a word and ignore any tantrums so as not to give reaction to bad behavior. I noticed with some kids it worked and others just made them more angry. Worked at a day care that what we were allowed to do with kids was state regulated though. Not even sure if it would work on my own. She's only two weeks old. May be worth a try though?

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