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I posted this on my Facebook with this caption:
"Yes! Seriously all family and friends that mention his binx or try to lecture me about it please just stop. It may be a pet peeve to you but it's not to him or me. His binx is not making him refuse to eat, drink, or talk so just leave it alone."
My mother has to complain about it all the time and it's really getting old (we live with her), my Gram who has no volume control yells at me all the time for it too (we all live together, my house is the real life Full House). And my mother in law is the queen of casual insults, my fiance always says 'she didn't mean it like that', always feels the need to say he can't talk with it in and proceeds to take it out and hold him for like 5 minutes telling him to talk to her. I'm so sick of it I could scream but I aways bite my tongue and just say 'leave it alone' or 'he's fine'.
People need to remember as his mother I have the right to say "MY KID, MY RULES".
My friends daughter used one until 3 and she has a little speech delay but nothing serious and besides that no effects. 🤷🏻♀️ I feel like it’s nobody’s business.
I would only be concerned with a speech delay. But worse case it’s nothing a little speech therapy won’t solve.
@ladyblauvelt, He is kind of delayed but I also think my mother in law was right when she said the problem is that I speak his language
Trust me I'm all for using binkies but just a heads up, if they are used for too long they can postpone proper speaking, happened with my son, but this is by no means judgment, like I said, I'm all for the use of binkies
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So my ex went to court and filed for visitation rights. I was served last week. I am not comfortable with our daughter being around him alone nor his mother which he lives with. I have proof of him asking me to take his drug test for his job for him in text messages and him texting me he was too high to drive and get our daughter milk. Is that enough to show the judge? As far as his mother she watches his son quite often and told us she gives him nighttime medicine if she has problems getting hi...
So over this feeling!
Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The...

Sooo I Just Saw This Shit On Facebook 😑 All I Can Say Is W T F 😞
@laynehelen yeah I was taught in Early Childhood Education that when it comes to babies and toddlers, its better to talk to them properly and like an equal